Thomas J. Tischbein
Home:
Floral Park, NY
Date of Death:
January 21, 2010
Age:
60
Birthdate:
April 20, 1949
Place of Birth:
Brooklyn, NY
Service Information:
Monday, January 25, 2010 9:30 a.m. St. Dominic RC Chapel, Oyster Bay, NY
Visitation:
Sunday, January 24, 2010 3-5 & 7-9 p.m. at Oyster Bay Funeral Home, Oyster Bay, NY
Interment:
St. John's Cemetery, Middle Village, NY


Tischbein, Thomas J. - on Jan. 21, 2010, age 60, of Floral Park, NY. Husband of Gloria. Beloved father of Cory. Loving son of Margaret and the late Frank. Dear brother of Frank (Lu Ann), Catherine Zoro (John), Jeanne, Mary, and Margaret Keller (Paul).Also survived by loving nieces, nephews, relatives, and friends. Visiting Oyster Bay Funeral Home, 261 South St., Oyster Bay, LI Sunday 3-5 & 7-9 p.m. Funeral Mass St. Dominic RC Chapel, Oyster Bay, LI Monday 9:30 a.m. Interment St. John's Cemetery, Middle Village, NY. In lieu of flowers donations to the Juvenile Diabetes Research Foundation, LI Chapter, 532 Broadhollow Rd., Suite 118, Melville, NY 11747 would be appreciated.




Al January 22, 2010
If your goodness and kindness is any indication of what heaven is then heaven must be a wonderful place. Love, Al

The Tischbein Family January 22, 2010
Thomas Joseph Tischbein, born April 20, 1949. Born and raised in Floral Park, New York. Student of the Graymoor Friars, Minor Seminary, Watkins Glen, NY. Son of Margaret and Frank. Father of Cory. Brother of Frank, Cathy, Jeanne, Mary, Margaret. 'Camp Counselor' to a big loving family. Weatherman. Friend.

The Tischbein Family January 22, 2010
Thomas Joseph Tischbein. Born April 20, 1949. Student of Graymoor Friars Minor Seminary in Watkins Glen, New York. Son of Margaret and Frank. Father of Cory. Husband of Gloria. Brother of Frank, Cathy, Jeanne, Mary, Margaret. Camp Counselor, Weatherman and Friend.

Tammy & Bill O'Neal January 22, 2010
Dear Mary and family: Our thoughts are with you during this difficult time. Love, Tammy and Bill

Donna Bischke January 22, 2010
He kept at true good humour's mark The social flow of pleasure's tide: He never made a brow look dark, Nor caused a tear, but when he died. ~Thomas Love Peacock Psalm 34:18 The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit. Love, Donna

Aunt Kay January 23, 2010
Tommy, When you get to Heaven your Dad will have the ball game on and Grandma will be in the kitchen with chocolate chip cookies and a glass of milk waiting for you. Save a seat for the rest of us. Later...Love Aunt Kay

Cousin Margaret January 23, 2010
Tommy,I feel so blessed to have had you as my cousin. You have given me many happy memories of our "adventures" growing up. Our family get togethers were never boring! Your easy & kind nature will surely be missed. Always be at peace. Love, Margaret

Lexie & Greg January 23, 2010
To the entire Tischbein family - We are thinking of you during this very difficult time. We are so sorry for your loss, but please know we are here for you! Much love, Lexie & Greg

Cousin Steve January 23, 2010
I will miss you. Never a bad time and never too much of a good time in your company. Sharing our "Wonder Years" together. From sleepovers in Floral Park, blasting "Let's hang on" in our dorm at St. John's after lights out and learning to drive a stick shift on your '49 Chevy. Save me a spot and I'll bring the Beach Boy's greatest hits.

Cousin Anne January 24, 2010
Tommy, we will miss you but now you are with the rest of our family. Give everyone a big hug and we will all be together again for a BBQ and a family softball game.Love you Anne

Mary Vrabel January 25, 2010
Words can not replace the lost you are feeling. Time will help. Thoughts and prayers to all at this time of need.

Cousin Carol January 27, 2010
Tommy, I can still hear your voice saying, Cousin Carol, and your big smile. We always had so much fun together with all the cousin's. Now you are in haven with all the family that has pass, please give them all big hugs from me. I will always miss you my other brother. Love Cousin Carol & Family

Mary January 28, 2010
Memories of Tommy: Margie's biggest memory -'Long story short' Telling Jeanne what time it is in Denver. Saying 'As you know' after stating the obvious. Telling everyone the weather. Belmont Park The green lounge chair in his Patchogue apartment The Beach Boys Getting a tour of the Air Traffic Control office he worked in His laugh and his smile Yo Bro.

Ada,David, Alexandra Zoro January 28, 2010
We are sorry to hear of Tom's passing, and send our deepest sympathies to the family at this time. We will be thinking of him much.

Maxwell January 29, 2010
My uncle was so cool. Like he wasn't Superman, but he was like a hero to me.

Margaret January 29, 2010
The last year was a tough one for Tommy. He moved in with me a year ago today. After the stroke he wasn't ever the same. Oh, he was still upbeat and happy but slower. Simple things we take for granted were more difficult for him. He enjoyed spending time with Maxwell so much and going to the movies and trying to keep up with us and our crazy schedule. He took care of me when I broke my collar bone till Mom could get to upstate NY. He would help anyone if only he had the resources. He will be missed in many ways!

Edna Duffy January 29, 2010
I am a friend of Tommy's mother and sister, Mary. They are wonderful people, compassionate and understanding. Marge and Mary spoke very highly of Tommy and often about his illness. He will be missed by them, his family, friends, and co-workers.

Wendy & Larry January 30, 2010
Mary, Warm thoughts and prayers coming your way from our entire family. We're so sorry for your loss.

Jeanne January 30, 2010
Last night I saw the most bright and beautiful moon. Somehow I felt you saw it to. I started remembering all the great Christmas mornings we had when we were young. I will miss your phone calls informing me of my time zone, weather and of course what is happening out there. Mostly I will miss you.

AnnMarie & Tommy February 21, 2010
My greatest memory of Cousin Tommy is when Aunt Sissy was watching us kids one time and it was a real rainy boo foo kind of a Saturday. Cousin Tommy offered to take Johnny and me to the movies. I was always in awe of your family, not because of the size but because we always knew how much you all meant to each other...unconditionally That was the best going to your house. Hanging out with the "grown up" kids. Uncle Frank was teaching us checkers and games. Walking Rags around the block or Rags walking us that is... it was safe for us to go back then. Everyone knew everyone besides Rags would protect us. Watching the Wizard of Oz on the couch with Aunt Sis and she would sneak us some Kit Kats. (I have a stash above my fridge for just such an occasion...) The Flea market, table cloths, the race tracks... That's the stuff right there, those are the memories that I strive for with my children. The simplest of things, gestures that mean so much. Not since then, not from any job, meeting or class have I learned those important things. When we all met up at the beach house a couple of summers ago there was Cousin Tommy greeting us at the door, bright wide smile, open door, " Heeeyyy how are ya? You want some cucumbers and tomatoes, sure, sure... Jeanne is cutting some up..." No matter how much time has passed or how many miles take us away, the very most important thing is family, no body can mess with that.. The simplest kindest gestures the greatest memories... One rainy boo foo Saturday... " Hey you kids wanna go for a movie... sure, sure." XOXOXO

Lou March 29, 2010
We would like to express our sincere condolences to your family. It has been our privilege to assist you during this very difficult time. If there is anything further we can do, we are here for you. Lou, Sara & Staff Oyster Bay Funeral Home

Margie April 29, 2010
Time is passing and somethings are easier and some are much harder. Tommy's birthday was a day that was very difficult for so many of us because we are missing him. He didn't reflect on his age or the impact of his health on his everyday life. Tommy kinda just things roll. I can't help thinking we all could have done more for him. That's just my guilt that I can't seem to shake and the fact that he just never really did anyone any harm. I seem to see him on the street most days - or at least I swear it's him. I still go to dial his number to make sure he's okay. Even though he drove me crazy, and he never knew it, I miss him something awful now. From the youngest to the oldest - I wish you were still here to worry about!!

steve wannemacher May 31, 2010
I was a classmate of Tom's at St. Johns Seminary, in Montour Falls, NY. I was one of 21 to graduate with Tom in 1967. I was just now trying to contact Tom about a reunion we are having next month. I am so shocked and saddened to learn of his passing. I can see by this picture, that Tom retained his thin physique, same hair, and the same impish grin. Tom was shy in high school, but we all found out what a terrific guy he was as we got to know him. In addition to remembering some of the things written here about Tom, I also remember that he loved Herb Alpert. We will be ending our reunion with a Mass. We will add Tom to our "in Memoriam" list of those who have passed away. And I'm sure all of us will remember Tom in our thoughts and prayers beyond the reunion weekend. I have not seen nor heard from Tom since 1967. But I feel sadness and a loss at receiving the news of his passing. When you live with someone for four years, especially at such an impressionable age, the bonds you develop are strong. You have my sincerest condolence. Steve Wannemacher

Mike O'Neil June 1, 2010
From a long time ago, St. John's Atonement Seminary - fond memories of your smile. Rest well my old friend. a.k.a. "Scotia", Class of '67

Erwin Jaumann June 1, 2010
I knew Tom through the four years that we spent in the seminary together, and he was a great classmate. Always happy and content with life, whether it was going on a hike or building the Shrine on the back of the seminary property with his best friend, Hugh O'Connor. He was mature early for his age and a great person to know. Erwin Jaumann Class of 1967

Cathy Tischbein Zoro June 17, 2010
Hello Tom's Classmate's Please sent E-Mail. I am Tom's sister, our family is happy to hear from you guys. I would like to see you all. I remeber your class play. "Cane Mutiny"

Cathy June 18, 2010
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