Saturday, May 6, 2023
Eulogy for My Cousin and Best Friend, that I will miss forever and ever:
Marcy was a blessing to know and love. Marcy and I were first cousins and the same age, to boot. We spent our entire lives sharing our thoughts, feelings and experiences with each other, as we were even able to communicate our entire lives, using just telepathic communications. It always worked for us and still does, as Marcy continues to speak to me, even from the other side, as we discussed, prior to Marcy passing, that she would continue to do so.
Marcy and I spent our teenage years and well into our 20's, spending time at each others homes and dancing the nights away in the 70's at the night clubs, called discos at the time. We were each others source of refuge, throughout our entire lives, as we continued to share the good, the bad and the ugly together, even up until the very end of Marcy's physical life, here on earth. We continued to share our lives with each other, until Marcy was unable to speak any further, and even then, Marcy communicated with me, telepathically or spiritually as they say. Her messages, after losing consciousness, to me, were always to tell everyone, mostly lance, her son, that she was fine and in good spirits, as she is with Lance's grandmother now.
Marcy's self-less ways, amazed me, more than ever as the cancer started to take over her body, as my cousin only wanted to know how I was doing? She always said, she is there for me, even as the cancer consumed her physical being. She only wanted to know how my legal case was progressing as it pertained to the legal battle that I am facing with my siblings, over my mothers care or guardianship case; and/or how my new love relationship was coming along, but never even at the end, did Marcy want to share her condition with me, of which I will never, ever forget, as i would continue to ask Marcy how she was feeling. Often, Marcy would only share that she was having a hard time breathing, due to the lung cancer, that she was facing; however, she can listen and to please share with her what's going on in my life.. She loved me greatly, as I loved her greatly. We were each others best friend and told each other that we loved each other, with each phone conversation that we had.
Marcy continued to tell me always with each call, "don't worry, I will be going home soon. I will beat this f'n cancer. Dont worry. I am good", she would tell me.
Marcy was an amazing human being that loved life so much, as she loved singing the old disco songs, dancing and traveling as much as she was able to; and most of all, she wanted to ensure that Lance was well taken care of, as he was growing up, currently, as well as that Lance's future life would be successful. Marcy loved her son, Lance very much and was so, so proud of him.
Marcy lived life to its fullest, as she enjoyed her times spent with Lance and Gil at restaurants very much, as family life was also very important to my cousin.
Marcy is now in a better place, as she is with her parents, our grandparents and even my own dad, in heaven, as well as our lord and savior, Jesus Christ, and our Father In Heaven, our comforter and Supreme Being. Amen.
She will be missed forever, as she will also live in each of our hearts forever and ever.
I miss you cousin so much already and will forever cherish the times of our lives that we shared together. May the good lord comfort you in heaven. You are loved deeply and will be missed deeply and forever. I love you cousin....
