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Emily posted a condolence
Hi Daddy, I love you, It was a great weekend and I love you more than anything!! Watch over me please.
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Emily posted a condolence
Daddy!! Its your daughter Emily, I miss you sooo much I am finishing 3rd Grade and turning 9. Happy Memorial Day!!!Mommy's Birthday was yesterday. I love you!!
Emily
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Emily posted a condolence
Daddy I miss you sooooooooooooooo much. Merry Christmas.
Your Daughter, Emily
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Emily posted a condolence
I really miss you I'm turning 7 Soon hope you'r watching on my special day and your's too.
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Jus posted a condolence
Vinny, Thank you for watching over me and just being with me wherever I am. I Love you Brother!!!
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Your Family & Friends posted a condolence
In Loving Memory of
Vincent J. Sarli
March 30, 1965 – July 16, 2006
Vinny, you’re a butterfly passing by,
a bright star in the sky.
It’s your way of saying “Hello”
and not “Goodbye.”
We know you are with Jesus
and on a new journey.
You are happy … at peace now
so we need not worry.
A son, a father, a brother, a friend
we can’t wait to see you
in Heaven again.
So we’ll look for the signs
and won’t let them pass by
because we know it’s you Vinny
just coming to say “Hi.”
Forever in our hearts,
Your Loving Family & Friends
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emily posted a condolence
daddy I Miss You soooooooo
Much xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxooxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxxoxoxoxoxoxxoxooxoxoxoxoxxooxooxxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxox
Love Emily
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Dee Dee posted a condolence
Had a great time today, you are so funny. Thanks for the love & the memories. It was great for me to be able to pass on your thoughts and feelings to all. We all miss and love you so much. It's good to know that you are doing well and that you are with Dad,(Lou). I'm glad that you are working things out with him. Your kind words and the abundance of your love is very much felt. I love you too Vinny, Thank you, Thank you!!! Endless Hugs & Kisses. Emily wants to write now.... I Love You Dad Very Very Much. Love, Emily. We will see you in our dreams....
And Mind, Love Emily And Mommy
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Jus posted a condolence
Hey Vinny!! Thinkin' about you alot these past few days. Just wanted to say "Hello" Love You!!! Love your sister:):)
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Jus posted a condolence
At that very second as I changed the channel,I heard the name "Vinny" on the TV, I knew you were around. But 15 minutes later I knew it was you when driving past a yellow jeep. A father driving 2 little girls in the back seat with 2 fishing poles sticking out of the open rooftop. I knew you were saying "Hello". You're Always Full of Surprises!!! I Love You!!
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Kid posted a condolence
Vinny, I Love You and wish I had the chance to tell you before you went away. But I know you hear me when I talk to you. I really miss you today.
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Jus posted a condolence
Led Zepplin is the song Glenn and Drew sang for you at the wake NOT the Beatles!!! Silly me!! I was listening to Free As A Bird and looking at the night stars and it was such a perfect song for you and where you are and where you've been.Please watch over Emily and Vin. They miss you more than you will ever know. Ease their hearts and protect them always. Love, Jus
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Jus posted a condolence
Hey, it's your sister again. The birthday wishes are still on the site. I was clicking on the last candle instead of the first one!! Just like your little sister to goof that up!! Bye, talk to you later
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Justine posted a condolence
Vinny, mom and I wrote to you on your Birthday, but the letters from the site were erased somehow. I am writing you again to tell you that we went out to an awesome Italian resturant. We raised our glasses off to you but I'm sure you were already there!! We listened to Glenns and Drews song sang to you on the CD. We told stories, we cried, we laughed, we ate, we ate some more....Mom said you like cannolies so we celebrated by eating those instead of a Birthday Cake. Made homemade just like Grandma or whoever made them when we were little. Well, mom is with Emily this week in Coco Beach for Easter. Mom gave her some pictures of "Vinny's Place" and I gave her some of Mom and the Easter Bunny ,Joey,Gary,Dad and Grandma and a shot of you, Joey and I when we were no more than 6 or 7. We were the cutest kids!!!!!!! Now the three of us are Old Farts!!:):) Gosh I Miss You. I Love You Vinny. Love Jus XXOO
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Anonymous posted a condolence
Vinny....If it is true what they say, and you are an angel with God watching over us all......please, please, guide him to do the right thing.</b></font><br><br>
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Teresa posted a condolence
Dear Marianne, Gary, Justine and Joseph:
I am so sorry to hear of Vincent's passing. I only learned the sad news moments before boarding a plane to visit my mom who is ill. Had I not been with my mother, I would have been there for all of you. All of you, including Vincent were there for me, and cared for me after my accident many years ago. You are a strong, loving and compassionate family. I know you will all be there to comfort one other and give each other strength. Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with Vincent and each one of you. If there is anything I can do, please let me know.
With Love,
Teresa</b></font><br><br>
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Emily posted a condolence
Daddy, I will never forget about you. I love you.
Emily 5 years old</b></font><br><br>
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John and Felice Catalano posted a condolence
Such sad news to hear from so far away. Our memories of the heyday of Syosset are filled with "Vinny stories". Your incredible charisma and your flair for the dramatic made hanging with you an adventure. Vinny, you are truly unforgettable. You will live on forever in the hearts and minds of all of us. You probably won't rest (too boring), but may you find your final peace. Our deepest sympathies to Vinny's family and loved ones. Peace to all of you. - John and Felice Catalano</b></font><br><br>
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Dolores posted a condolence
I hope you are feeling better. Emily and I are doing well. Please know that every thought of you is a prayer sent to you from us. We will always remember our Family time as well spent. Love, Dee & Em XOXOXO</b></font><br><br>
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Laurie de Poto posted a condolence
Vinny's family and friends, most who have known him all his life or since childhood, know and understand the good and bad times he experienced.
In times of reflection, Vinny, through endearing letters to his loved ones, expressed his appreciation and acknowledgement of their love for him and the gifts of love they gave to him. He also expressed remorse and asked for forgiveness for the times he disappointed them. His was truely an inner struggle for which no one could reach in and heal the depth of his pain. We all bear the sorrow for that. As I speak for myself, I know others will feel the same, Vinny's passing has released him from his personal pain and he is free now to love himself as he could not fully do so when he was here with us. The love that everyone has felt for him and still feels for him will sustain him for eternity and in turn his love for his family and friends will sustain us. It is my hope that as we write these thoughts and memories about Vinny we can all appreciate that his children, Vincent and Emily, may one day look to our words as a source of compassion, comfort and healing as, in time, they work through their own grieving process.</b></font><br><br>
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Glenn Jenkinson posted a condolence
Of my earliest recollection Vinny and I would find our way to the same books in the elementary school library at south grove. we pulled wales and dolphins, sharks and skates, from the shelves, that’s when vinny taught me to take words and construct them, into sentences. Vinny and I had a bond, from early child hood, that no matter what! would never be broken. This is unconditional Love. Yes, it was tested but never broken. throughout the past thirty some odd years like stars we some times move together and some times apart. but mostly together. pardon the expression, we were frick and frack. together with Bobby “Pooch”, Ian “The Mick”, “Drewster”, “B-Man: Bert and of course Jamie “Cip”. and Randy “Harty”. sorry if I forgot any of the Boy’s.
Vinny and I worked together, Vinny always made sure I was paid well. Vinny got me my first job working in a cabinet shop. The truth is some of the best times in my entire life were spent with Vinny. I remember a time in Oyster bay, we were with the “girls” Dolores and Lisa, jet skiing. Vinny found a living starfish and put it in Lisa’s hand, it moved around, I don’t recall ever seeing that kind of excitement in her face! he had a way of bringing joy and happiness, like no other. The Last night we spent we were on the south shore in his boat and he spotted a dolphin swimming near the boat just off the beach, not common and a first for me, that is one of the most special times ever.
I lost touch with him three years ago, about the time I decided to get clean and sober. the day after I received my one year coin Feb. 7th, I received a letter from him and he wanted my support. as you readers know I would have done anything to help him.
I will miss Him for the rest of my life.
God had other plans for him.
God has removed all his troubles and shortcomings, fills the void in Vinny with his Love.
God bless him, be with him, .... always and forever.
.... Glenn Jenkinson</b></font><br><br>
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Michael Palma posted a condolence
“My Friend Vinny”
The fondest memory I have,of vinny is when he came to visit me in the hospital, year 1995. I was sick from the same disease that took him. when he saw how sick I really was, he started to cry. I knew at then, Vinny was a true friend. I am coming up on six years sobrietey on august seventeenth.My deepest sympathy to all of Vinny's family and friends....Michael Palma</b></font><br><br>
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Layla posted a condolence
My heart goes out to my mother knowing that she lost her companion and the love of her life. I have never seen someone create such joy for her, as well as such sorrow. I know Vinny will always be in her heart. Although their relationship seemed not so perfect from the outside, it made sense to them. She gave all that anyone could give, and if Vinny was thinking with a clear mind, he could have realized he was a very lucky man.
I wish I would have known him better, I wish I would have let him in more.
Vinny-may you find happiness and peace where you are.
Watch over our woman.</b></font><br><br>
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Dolores posted a condolence
I hope you are feeling better. I imagined the bright smile on your handsome face. Emily is doing well and loves you so. Please know every thought of you is a prayer sent to you from us. Love,Dee & Em XOXOXO</b></font><br><br>
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ma posted a condolence
"There are places I remember
all my life, though some have changed,some forever not for better, some have gone and some remain.
All these places have their moments, lovers and friends I still can recall,
some are dead and some are living. IN MY LIFE I LOVED THEM ALL.
But of all these friends and lovers, there is no one compares with ou.
And these memories lose their meaning, when I think of love as something new.
Though I'll never lose affection, for people or things that went before, I know I'll always stop and think about them,
In my life I loved you more....
IN MY LIFE I LOVED YOU MORE...
Linda
Please have the courtesy of not erasing this.</b></font><br><br>
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Vinny posted a condolence
Excerpt from a letter dated 2-15-06 from Vincent Sarli. "I'm in the middle of a life-changing period. I'm learning about why I have been doing what I've been doing...It's very hard."</b></font><br><br>
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glenn jenkinson posted a condolence
The Rain Song
by Jimmy Page and
Robert Plant.
Led Zeppelin
from the album
"Houses of the Holy"
Performed by
Drew Muller
(vocals)
Glenn Jenkinson
(Guitar)
place: Oyser Bay
funerial home
7/21/06 8pm
reason: Vinny Sarli's wake.
The Rain Song
This is the spring time of my loving-
the second season I am to know
You are the sunlite in my glowing-
so little warmth I felt before.
It insn't hard to feel me glowing-
I watched the fire that grew so low.
It is the summer of my smiles-
flee from me Keepers of the Gloom.
Speak to me only with your eyes
it is to you I give this tune.
It isn't hard to recognise-
These things are clear to all from time to time.
Talk Talk-
I felt the coldness of my winter
I never thought it would ever go
I cursed the gloom that set upon us
but I know that I Love You so.
but I know that I Love You so.
These are the seasons of emotion And like the winds they rise and fall
This is the wonder of devotion-
I see the torch we all must hold.
This is the mystery of the quotient-
Upon us all a little rain must fall.
........
with our deepest Love for You Vinny. May GOD be with You always and forever.
Love, Drew and Glenn</b></font><br><br>
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Justine and Joey posted a condolence
To our "BIG BROTHER" who had a heart of gold. Through all our years growing up filled with love,our fights over toys,playing wiffleball with all our neighborhood friends in the middle of the street,getting into trouble and being sent to our rooms until dinner time,making tents out of sheets in the backyard to campout in,iceskating for hours during an overfreeze one winter,playing football on the front lawn,tickling each other on the bunkbeds for hours we laughed so hard it hurt and we cried only to do it all over again! We will remember all the struggles and triumphs in his life.We will remember his love for each and everyone of us as he will live on through and within all of us, no matter what. Vinny,we love you and we know you are truly at peace now.Will always remember your free spirit,your rebel side,your beautiful face, and that Vinny smile! Say "Hi" to Dad, grandma,and grandpa for us!This is your time to fly and shine.Don't cook too much. We will miss you and we love you more than you will ever know. Love, Joey and Jus</b></font><br><br>
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Linda Zuppa posted a condolence
People have different views on the mores of propriety. I tried to write what was in my heart, but it somehow disappeared.
Anyway, Vinny, I can't help but believe that the "better place" for you was here on earth with me, your daughter, your friends and family. Our motto during sad times was "it's the little things that count." A beautiful day, a good steak, a passionate interlude. Had you given yourself the chance, these little things might have become enough. Anyway my poor poor boy, nothing will ever taste or feel or smell the same without you. You are the love of my life, eternally, in my memory and in my heart. Linda</b></font><br><br>
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Vinny posted a condolence
So small and full of love
She bounces with energy, from above floating and singing, I watch her.
My heart full of pride
My soul needs her as food
I love this little girl
She's my baby given to me,
from the good Lord for all to see.
Vinny Sarli 2/2/06</b></font><br><br>
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Marianne Sarli-Hurst posted a condolence
My sons Last Gift To Me
(Ltr. dated 2-19-06)
Dearest Mother,
My love for you goes deeper than you will ever know... Here are some of the reasons:
Your warm hands stroking my head as I fall back to sleep after bad dreams.
How you wet your fingers to clean my face before going into church on Sunday.
How Santa Claus, the Easter Bunny and all special days were extra special with your "special touch".
The way you took time to show me how to do my homework.
Trini Lopez, Gloria Gaynor and so many others on the phonograph gave me a special love of music.
The way you sang Doris Day songs as I drifed off to sleep.
Your patience at Sears trying on clothes for school with an uncooperative me resisting all the way!
The care you took in choosing where to live based on the best schools for us to go to.
Having the courage to make a better life for us as a single parent. Struggling working nites so you could go to school to better yourself and our way of life.
The mandatory cleaning of my room on Saturday morning in hopes I too would be a neat freak!
Trying to talk to me about the dangers of drugs and how they took some of your friends growing up.
The love you always had for me even when I did the wrong thing.
Having the courage and strength not to let me in the house in hopes of teaching me to be a man.
Making my wedding day special... magical... unforgettable. The best day of my life.
I love you with every breath I take in this life. You are my mother, my hero and my best friend.
Love Always
Vincent
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I wanted to share this with all of you who knew and loved the "real Vinny".
Thanks to all who honored my son - he will always be in our hearts and prayers until we see him in heaven.
God bless you all.</b></font><br><br>
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JAY FRIEDMAN posted a condolence
I know I wrote here already but as days pass since his body is not with us anymore we all realy need to keep his soul in our hearts and realy keep his laughter with us at all times. weather it be when were playing with our children or listening to his favorite music. when were fishing or just when were out goofing around. Vinny was a aweome guy and always brought a smile to our faces.yes he will be missed very much so but we cant stop living and keep his memories,laughter and crazyness with us always. Vinny always said he wanted to go out as a legend and I believe his wish came true cause thats how we should all remember him as a lengend because he was a star to all of us in his own kind of way. There was never a day that went that he wouldnt be there for all of us.as james taylor said if you call out my name and you now were ever I am ill come running that was my vinny, my friend. I love you man you were always there for me and I just hope you will continue to be there for me in my heart always. Lets all live out our lives and stop to think what it would look like through vinnys eyes. Things he loved sunsets,children,the ocean,family,animals,nature and a good steak (lol). So to all that were loved by vinny make sure you keep him close to you when you come across the things he loved out of life and share your moments with him. love and peace to you all.</b></font><br><br>
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Frank Macri posted a condolence
No more tangled lines or lost lures. Every cast will catch a keeper now. love you and miss you. Won't be the same without you.</b></font><br><br>
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Jane Cohan (Conroy) and Family posted a condolence
Our thoughts and prayers are with the entire family.--Vinny, rest in peace--you will be missed.</b></font><br><br>
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Joe Sinski and Family posted a condolence
Maryann and family;
Words will never say enough about how sorry we are for your loss and how much we feel for you during this horrible time. If we can do anything at all please let us know.</b></font><br><br>
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BMAN posted a condolence
On the best day of my life and at the biggest party ever you also were right by my side and without a dought you will always be the best man.My brother always and forever</b></font><br><br>
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Lucien & Nancy Fortin posted a condolence
Our memories of Vinny put smiles on our faces. We wish to send our deepest sympathy to Dolores and all of Vinny's family and friends.</b></font><br><br>
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Paul Macri And Family posted a condolence
Vinny I will miss you always and never forget you. My heart seems to have a peice missing now and nobone could ever fill it. I will always remember you and the times we shared together. I know that you are in a better place LOVE YOU MAN Paulie Mac and Family....</b></font><br><br>
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MAC'S posted a condolence
May your next journey be filled with love, happiness and peace; void of all pain, sorrow, and suffering. I shall remember you! Shine brightly in Heaven, Vincent!</b></font><br><br>
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BERT MAZLIAH posted a condolence
I LOVE YOU VINNY.I WILL MISS YOU ALWAYS AND FOREVER.</b></font><br><br>
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Marianne Bennett (Moyes) posted a condolence
Vinny Sarli brought me many laughs and smiles. My thoughts are with the Sarli's, dePoto's and Crawford's during this very difficult time.
I wish him peace.
With Love, Marianne Moyes</b></font><br><br>
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Emily Rose posted a condolence
Daddy, I will miss you!
Love, Emily
XOXOXOXOXOXO</b></font><br><br>
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Maureen Vincennie posted a condolence
Vinny, we will never forget you. I cannot remember all the good times and laughs (there were so many!)we shared on Bluebird Dr. You are definitely one of a kind. I am sure you have found peace. We will miss you and your laugh forever.
Love, The Vincennies</b></font><br><br>
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norman greenspan posted a condolence
I remember all those crazy times at Syosset High. Vinny was part of this incredible group that a dean loves chasing around! I loved helping him and his friends (the Cips, Bobby P, the Palmas,stay on the right path. He even came to my house to do wood floors when he worked for Jeff P. I will miss his smile and laughter.
Norm Greenspan</b></font><br><br>
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Lori posted a condolence
Vinny, I am grateful we made our peace a few months ago. I hope you are at peace now.</b></font><br><br>
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The Demicks posted a condolence
Marianne & Family,
Our hearts go out to all of you. Vinny will always have a special place in our hearts. Sorry that we cannot be with you at this time.
Love, Esther, Andrew, & Mitchell Demick</b></font><br><br>
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Jay Friedman posted a condolence
To all that knew and loved vinny. Vinny was full of life and full of love for children. He had a big heart and I enjoyed being his friend and fishing partner. He brought lots of laughter to my children. My kids always got a kick out of him. I will always remember the good times with him cause they were always good. He should always be remebered as a kind and loving person. Lets all remember the good times with vinny and cherish the children and memories he left with us. The next mako is for you buddy.</b></font><br><br>
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Anonymous posted a condolence
Dear Dee, Emily Rose and Family, This has been a long journey for all of us. We can move forward knowing Vinny is a peace looking down from heaven. He can do so much now that he is free to be an angel with God. We wish peace and understanding to you all. Love and prayers, Diane, Rich, Katie & Mike</b></font><br><br>
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Dolores posted a condolence
Vinny, I don't think a day will go by where I don't think of all the special times we had. We both have such great love for our baby girl. She is a beautiful walking tribute to you. Love and Peace, Dee Dee</b></font><br><br>
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Anonymous posted a condolence
Whenever I gaze up at the stars, I will remember our promise-love from the soul is not a lie. For the soul is eternal, ignoring time, space and circumstances. So, I say goodbye for now and thank you for the blessing I gained from our journey.
He loves you and always will; he’s becoming the man you knew he could.....
Love,
Me</b></font><br><br>
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SUSAN,JOE,JOSEPH SARLI posted a condolence
Our dearest family,
Our deepest thoughts and prayers are with all of you.
May God help provide you with strength to heal your broken hearts.We love you very much.</b></font><br><br>
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Brett Friedman posted a condolence
Vinny, I will miss you so much. I will always remember you playing with me, and teaching me how to fish, shoot a bow and arrow, and shoot a paintball gun in the woods with Vincent.
I will always love you,
Brett</b></font><br><br>
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Avery Friedman posted a condolence
Vinny, you were soooo fun to play with. Thanks for everything that you shared with me in my life. I will always remember you. Love your pal, Avery</b></font><br><br>
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Bobby Popper posted a condolence
You made us all laugh.. so many times. you will be missed
my brother.</b></font><br><br>
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Elizabeth posted a condolence
I shall always remember you as you were - My Friend.
All of our conversations - your thoughts, your words ,I keep forever. Im sorry I hadnt told you before - I always loved you
I will miss you.
Love Elizabeth</b></font><br><br>
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dolores cifarelli posted a condolence
Dear Marianne and Family,
You know,if possible, I would be with you at this terrible time. I love you all, and please remember, I am there for you when you need me. My deepest love and sympathy, Dolly</b></font><br><br>
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Marilyn de Poto posted a condolence
Just wishing peace and strength for the Sarli family and lots of loves and kisses to Emily and Dee!</b></font><br><br>
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Jus posted a condolence
Oh Vinny,Mom has the CD that Drew and Glenn made for you. So, keep your ears open!!!! Love The Gang!!!!!!!
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Jus posted a condolence
Well,it's your Birthday today!! 42, can you believe it!! Like I said before in my last letter to you, you'll Always be Older than Me(Ha,Ha)but WE still look good for our age!! Anyway, you should look at the Beautiful place Mom made for you in the yard garden when you get a chance. I know in my heart that you're in Heaven with family and friends and I'm SURE YOU'RE MAKING NEW ONES!! We are all going out to dinner to celebrate your Birthday. I just wish that I had a Beatles CD to play today. I'll go to Wallmart and pick one up one for you!! Well Vinny, Happy Birthday and tell everyone I said Hello!! I LOVE YOU AND MISS YOU SO MUCH!! Love Jus
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mom posted a condolence
Good Morning Son,
I want to wish you a "Happy Birthday". I know it will be a SPECIAL DAY for you in Heaven!! Hope you have time to visit the new garden that I made for you called "Vinnys Place". It's filled with flowering bushes and trees and some special antiques you will love. I restored the bench myself and the antique bicycle has a pot of sunflowers in the seat and YOU the ORANGE BUTTERFLY sitting on the handlebars. My birthday gift to you is next to the bench .... did I ever forget! It's a memorial stone with a beautiful angel praying over it - the stone inscription reads:
"If Tears Could Build a Stairway, And Memories a Lane, I'd Walk Right Up To Heaven And Bring You Home Again." .... But Vin, you know I wouldn't WALK I would RUN & Emily would be RUNNING right beside me!!
You will live in my heart until we are together again.
Happy 42d Birthday Son!
Forever Mom XXOO
PS: Don't forget to read the balloons!
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Marianne Sarli-Hurst posted a symbolic gesture
Friday, April 3, 2020
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Happy 55th Birthday Son....always in my heart & will never be forgotten!!
Love always, Mom
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Elizabeth Rodriguez planted a tree in memory of Vincent “Vinny” Sarli
Saturday, December 7, 2019
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Protecting those around you , we plant this tree for the birds their shelter, and for all that wish for a rest, protection and beauty! Continue to shine on .
Please wait
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Elizabeth posted a condolence
Saturday, December 7, 2019
It's been so long yet somehow I feel you around. This morning your words woke me as I spoke your name and reassured you my safety. Thank you my friend , you have always been a warrior angel, I know it has been you who has led me through some horrific times. Vinny the savior my archangel of sorts you are missed terribly. Thank you for watching over all your friends and family you are so strong like that . I love you too !
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Elizabeth lit a candle
Saturday, December 7, 2019
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Hey Vinny,
I think about you often and tonight you were in my dream. Clear as day with your concerned over me being safe . Thank you my friend , I always know you are watching over all your friends and family . I miss you . Chase is 14 , how time flies. Love you always ! Elizabeth
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