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Sigrid Mirabella posted a condolence
My profound thanks to all who have visited this site and written so eloquently
about my beloved husband. It helps my devastated heart to see how he was loved by others. I wonder how I will go on without him when half of me is gone. When he met me, I was like a bird with damaged wings. He held me until I could fly. Steve loved to give fledglings the courage to try and soar, always making sure to be there to catch them if aspirations took them too high. His encouragement and enthusiastic attitude was my safety net.
Steve would recite poems to me by heart as we sat on our lawn swing facing the mountains, or he might spontaneously compose one for me. He loved a smooth glass of Chianti, some imported salami, parmesan and good Italian bread as he listened to a selection from Teleman, Santana, or perhaps Jimi Hendrix. Our excursions to Italy and getting to see Italian art in person just made him giddy with joy. I would read him novels as we traveled to destinations. Sometimes, he would pick up his guitar and “noodle” on it (his word) while he was watching TV. I can picture him correcting papers with a cat on his lap and dogs at his feet, the Simpsons flickering on the tube. I can’t recall how many times he excitedly shared with me small details he’d uncovered for the book he was working on about Michelangelo and the Sistine Chapel. He was passionate about this. Mostly, I remember him sacrificing what he wanted most and living to make others happy--especially me.
My darling, I will love you forever. “I carry your heart…” EE Cummings
Please come back to visit this site to read what is new and to add to it. It is permanent. Help me keep Steve remembered. Thank you.
Sigrid Mirabella
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Tamera Morgan posted a condolence
It is hard for me to put into words what Steve gave and taught me. I can tell you that he had more love in his heart than anyone could imagine. He showed me what true unconditional love really is by the way he loved my mother. He always stood by my side even when I am sure I made it very hard. He came into my life when things in my life were extremely hard. He always showed me compassion and love. When he knew he wanted to marry my mother he came to me first and asked for my blessing. What an amazing gesture, he loved her that much! Long before becoming a teacher he instilled in me a passion for history, art, and music that has changed me forever. It touched me deeply how much he loved teaching, his students, and his colleagues . I wish I was able to thank him for loving my mom and I as much as he did, for teaching me when I didn't want to be taught , and then when I did. I also wanted to thank him for always being there smiling. He was not just my step-father he was my father and friend. I miss and love him so much! Happy Fathers Day!
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Sigrid Mirabella posted a condolence
My profound thanks to all who have visited this site and written so eloquently
about my beloved husband. It helps my devastated heart to see how he was loved by others. I wonder how I will go on without him when half of me is gone. When he met me, I was like a bird with damaged wings. He held me until I could fly. Steve loved to give fledglings the courage to try and soar, always making sure to be there to catch them if aspirations took them too high. His encouragement and enthusiastic attitude was my safety net.
Steve would recite poems to me by heart as we sat on our lawn swing facing the mountains, or he might spontaneously compose one for me. He loved a smooth glass of Chianti, some imported salami, parmesan and good Italian bread as he listened to a selection from Teleman, Santana, or perhaps Jimi Hendrix. Our excursions to Italy and getting to see Italian art in person just made him giddy with joy. I would read him novels as we traveled to destinations. Sometimes, he would pick up his guitar and “noodle” on it (his word) while he was watching TV. I can picture him correcting papers with a cat on his lap and dogs at his feet, the Simpsons flickering on the tube. I can’t recall how many times he excitedly shared with me small details he’d uncovered for the book he was working on about Michelangelo and the Sistine Chapel. He was passionate about this. Mostly, I remember him sacrificing what he wanted most and living to make others happy--especially me.
My darling, I will love you forever. “I carry your heart…” EE Cummings
Please come back to visit this site to read what is new and to add to it. It is permanent. Help me keep Steve remembered. Thank you.
Sigrid Mirabella
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Marilyn Flanders posted a condolence
Sigrid,
I am so sorry to hear about your husband Stephen. I know you will miss him very much. I send my deepest sympathy to you and your daughter. He will be your guardian angle, he will always be there when you need him and his strength. I assure you, I lost my husband, best friend, my everything three years ago and he is still with me!
Take care.
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Melanie posted a condolence
What a beautiful artist's heart Stephen had. I remember him from his True Blue days in the late 80's when he had just met Sig. Stephen enjoyed exploring new artistic expression, becoming an accomplished guitarist during the time I knew him. I was always blown away by his sculpting talent. Much love to you Sig, you're in my prayers.
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Solange De Santis posted a condolence
I was a friend of Steve Mirabella's back in high school days in Queens, NY. He and my brother played in several bands. I well remember his vibrant personality and great laugh. We'd all end up at some Greek diner on Long Island - mostly The Omega - after rockin' and rollin' on a Saturday night. He wrote us a lovely note after our mother passed away in 1995. I knew he'd moved to Virginia but we didn't keep in touch. I always thought Steve was a great guy, but was astonished to learn he was a teacher so beloved by students and colleagues and a man so obviously deeply cherished by his wife and daughter. Steve, you made of your life a work of art as beautiful and profound as any you discussed in the classroom.
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Jacob Lane posted a condolence
I first met Stephen as a sleepy, grumpy and uncomfortable 7th grader at JRDS. We later bumped into each other around Amherst. He always exuded a calmness that I will never forget. He put me at ease every time we spoke.
Looking back I can attribute much of my growth to two people, Mary Gough and Stephen Mirabella. He so quietly and effectively did his work that I never realized how deeply he effected my life. This year, I was sitting at my computer, writing my senior thesis and I was suddenly struck by the question, would Mr. Mirabella like this paper? While I never acted on it, I always felt that he would have been there for me if i needed him. I will miss that feeling.
Jacob Lane
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Rebecca Massie Lane posted a condolence
Steve was the beloved teacher of my two sons, Jacob and Gabriel Lane, and was a profoundly positive role model for them. We're so grateful to have known Steven. Much love to his family.
Rebecca
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Peggy Hayes posted a condolence
To Steve's family and friends,
for those who might not know, Stephen Mirabella what quite a talented rhythm guitarist. I was in a band with him in the late 80’s early 90’s in NYC. Sigrid, I remember when Stephen met you. When you had your accident he stayed by your side, he was so in love with you, so deeply devoted to you, we marveled at the enormous heart he had. I didn't know he ended up teaching. Those kids were blessed to have such a warm, sensitive, gentle, generous, intelligent, and contagiously enthusiastic man as their teacher. I remember his dedication to the blues band as a great rhythm guitarist, his wonderful artwork, his bronze sculpture, and his and your abiding friendship. I remember how selfless he was to take care of his sister Elise all those years. I remember his honesty and his kindness and caring for all living things. I thank you for telling me about his passing, but I admit I am weeping terribly as I type here as that is often what happens when memories of people who have deeply touched your life pass away. I wished we could have kept in touch. I always told my husband Tim about you and Steve and where you lived and how I wished we could visit. He and I and our 7 year old son Quinn and traveled north from Raleigh, NC these past 7 seven years to visit my family in Vermont but you all were just a little further west to stop. I know we have been exchanging Christmas cards these past few years but had no idea what you were going through. My heart breaks for you Sig. Just breaks for you. I have a funny memory of Stephen when he and the band True Blue came to my folks farm in Vermont to play at my dad's 60th birthday party, he said being out in the country, without all the noise of the city freaked him out. And then look where you all ended up moving to! I marveled at that fact. Once again I am so very sorry for your and your families loss. May you hang onto the the enormous love you shared, the beautiful memories and continue to heal at this difficult time. I still have some of our music on tape if you ever want to hear it!
Much love,
Peggy Hayes
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John Jaffe posted a condolence
Steve was one of those people who could always inspire by his sparkling intelligence and great care for all the people he met and worked with. He always gave his best to teach and learn and left all of us better for knowing him.
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The Brockman Family posted a condolence
To Stephen's Family,
Annie,Billy and I would like to express how truly sorry we are for your loss. I am so grateful that Annie was able to have Mr. Mirabella for history this year; she learned so much from him. She admired his enthusiasm, knowledge, and love of teaching. We were fortunate to have known him; we will miss him. Sincerely,
Claire Brockman
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Perrin Givan posted a condolence
It was Mr.Mirabella who helped sparked my love for my favorite subject, history in the 6th grade.It was also Mr.Mirabella who first instigated my love for Pirates of Caribbean, when he told our class about the "Curse of Cortez", which was featured in the first movi(Because of him I knew more that most other Pirates of the CAribbean fans). Mr. Mirabella was the teacher I always made sure to visit every time I was in the middle school. His passion for art, history, teaching, and life itself inspired me to do the same. I will always think happily of the times I spent with him, whether in the classroom or not. I give my condolences to his family and friends. I am glad to know that he will no longer suffer from the effects cancer.
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Oyster Bay Funeral Home Staff posted a condolence
We would like to express our sincere condolences to your family. It has been our privilege to assist you during this very difficult time. If there is anything further we can do, we are here for you. Lou, Kristy & Staff Oyster Bay Funeral Home
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Tina Ashton posted a condolence
Dear Sigrid, I was very lucky to teach along side Steve at STAB until June of 2005. I admired his passion for history, art and life in general. He has touched many lives, old and young, and I feel a richer person having known a small part of him.
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Kathy Dorwart posted a condolence
Steve, you will walk with kings as Tim does and I know that one day we will see each other again. I will miss you
Kathy
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Laura Jones posted a condolence
Steve was one of the most interesting people to listen to!! He had a wonderful way of expressing his thoughts, and what a joy to have him and his devoted, loving wife as neighbors in Amherst.
God made a very special Gentle Man in Steve, one who will be missed. He had many talents in art, speech and in writing... and has touched so many people.... a wonderful sense of humor, beautiful smile and gentle way about him.
I will miss him!!
Love to his family,
Laura Jones
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Mick Gregory posted a condolence
Thank you Steve for your friendship, sense of humor , kind words and encouragement. You are in our thoughts forever, Mick and Sharon
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Chip posted a condolence
it is hard to recognize the face, but the smile has never changed. sometimes life is not fair.
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Gary Kessler posted a condolence
Steve, the playful lion. A lion because he had enormous writing and artisitic talent, which I thoroughly enjoyed in a too-brief relationship through the Virginia Writer's Club. And playful, because the zest for life he and Sigrid exhibited was infectious and exhilerating. Never to be forgotten or underappreciated. For me, he will live on in the richness of the prose and poetry he left behind--and in the light in Sigrid's eyes.
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Kathy Morris posted a condolence
Steve's smile and effervescent demeanor will be sorely missing in the hallways of St. Anne's.
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Rev.Bob Donnelly posted a condolence
No one dies alone because everyone has touched and affected many lives in many ways - Mitch Albom's book "The Five People You Meet In Heaven" describes this very beautifully. Our prayers go with the family.
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Debbie Stollings posted a condolence
Sigrid,
My favorite memory will always be Steve's smile. It lit up the room.
I'm thinking of you,
Debbie
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Linda Levokove posted a condolence
A fond goodbye to one of the most truly special people I have had the pleasure of knowing, and one who was genuinely loved by so many. The world is truly a sadder place without you. May you rest in peace.
Love,
Linda
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LaVerne Paige posted a condolence
Sigrid,
I am so blessed to have had an opportunity to meet Stephen. He had such a wonderful and caring spirit. My prayers and thoughts are with you. Be blessed and strengthened.
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Edward Hopkins posted a condolence
Sigrid,
This whole congregation loves you so much and misses you so completely. I told them to step-it-up on Sunday as they pray for you!
Your adoring pastor
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Gary & Vicki Bibb posted a condolence
We have been touched by Steve's courage and smile. You would never had known he was sick. Thank you for being a part of our lives.
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Patty Cornell posted a condolence
I'm from Hinton Ave. United Methodist Church and he was always willing to lend a hand! For our Spaghetti Cook off he and Sigrid brought great sauce and were a huge help! Sigrid and family, I am thinking and praying for you! Much love!
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Fred Chandler posted a condolence
Steve,
So many kids here at school have been blessed to know you. They will miss you! We will miss you!
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Melissa Scott posted a condolence
My deepest sympathy to Steve's family. We thank him for all of his service to our middle school students.
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William A. McGhee III posted a condolence
Your family is in my thoughts and prayers. Rest assured in knowing that to be absent from the body is to be present with the Lord.
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Summer Jones posted a condolence
The first thing that comes to mind when I think of Mr. Mirabella, is how much he loved everyone, and everyone loved him. You could see it, every morning he would come out of the lounge with a spring in his step and a smile on his face, saying hello to everyone. His passion for history rubbed off on all of us,making him a wonderful teacher as well as a great friend. Mr. Mirabella was loved, and he will be missed by all of us.
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Beth, Skip, and Elm Fox posted a condolence
Each of us, especially Elm, remember Mr. Mirabella as an extraordinarily gifted history teacher and an extraordinarily nice person. He had a unique way of getting students involved and interested in history and he certainly did that for Elm for whom history was his favorite subject in 6th grade. Elm was fortunate to have had Mr. Mirabella because he was one of those teachers who have a lasting impact on their students
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Beth, Skip, and Elm Fox posted a condolence
Each of us, especially Elm, remember Mr. Mirabella as an extraordinarily gifted history teacher and an extraordinarily nice person. He had a unique way of getting students involved and interested in history and he certainly did that for Elm for whom history was his favorite subject in 6th grade. Elm was fortunate to have had Mr. Mirabella because he was one of those teachers who have a lasting impact on their students
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Marianne Starsia posted a condolence
Steve was a pleasure to work with at St. Anne's. He was so well liked by his students and co-workers. Such a talented historian, teacher, actor (in the classroom), artist and poet. There was never a dull moment when he was around...he was full of life and energy. He will be missed...we will all miss Steve! Bless him and his family.
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laura farrell posted a condolence
steve first hit my radar when he emailed jake encouraging notes during jake's health struggles in 6th grade. his humorous messages carried his deeper message of caring and hope, and i was touched by steve's efforts to support our journey. his own courageous battle is one i will hold up as a reminder of a truly victorious spirit, one that will light the path of those of us who are left behind. thank you, steve.
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Mary Riser posted a condolence
I worked with Steve for years at the St. Anne's-Belfield Middle School. He was passionate about his students, about the Renaissance, about sculpture, about poetry, about his friends. He was one of my son's favorite history teachers.
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Sharon & Mick Gregory posted a condolence
We were privileged to know Steve for many years. He was a devoted husband to his beloved wife, Sigrid, and her daughter, Tamera. He was an amazing man - so very talented, with a wit that always made us laugh. The world is a sadder place with his passing. We miss you, Steve, and will never forget you. Hellooooo, Frisco.
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Sarah Hormel posted a condolence
You were always a beacon of light, a joy to meet, open arms ALWAYS! How perfect that you entered into eternal life on my birthday. Thank you for being such an awesome teacher, supporter and advisor to Anniken. I am blessed to have been touched by your amazing spirit. Give Kyle and Douglas hugs from us!
So much love to you. Thank you for being so GOOD! Sarah (and Anni)
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The Lamb Family posted a condolence
Our hearts are truly saddened at the loss of Mr. Mirabella and at the same time are blessed at having known and had him as a teacher for Elizabeth. His passion for his students and his subjects will be greatly missed.
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Karen Gray posted a condolence
Steve, I will miss your amazing zeal for history. You were a master teacher. Rest in peace.
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The Grossman Family posted a condolence
Steve was a gift to the children he taught and to the people who's lives he touched. As a teacher it was his love of history and art that inspired but it was his ability to appreciate the moment that taught us all the greatest lesson in life.
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Anne Yates posted a condolence
Our family is so grateful for the time and talents Steve shared with us during his journey at STAB. Both of our children were fortunate enough to have the chance to learn and grow under Steve's direction, and we all adore him. We will continue to keep Steve, Sigrid and their family in our thoughts and prayers. Thank you Steve for your contributions to our community; the world is a better place for all, because you were here and made a difference. Anne, Harry and Emily Yates
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Jake Farrell posted a condolence
He was always so strong about everything, i remember when I met him on Barracks Road as he was about to reserve Halo 3. I'm just glad he died happy.
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judith peatross posted a condolence
To Steve's family,
Thank you for sharing such a beautiful person with us in Charlottesville. We are all better from the kindness that flowed from his soul. I always remember him when I see a heart.
Judith Peatross
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The Sisson Family posted a condolence
We remember Steve fondly as a caring and wonderful teacher. His enthusiasm, genuine caring for those whith which he taught, and deep understanding of history and its importance to all, brewed an energy and respect within his students, and within all of us who he touched directly and through them.
Steve is missed and we have all lost a special presence.
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Liza Sackson posted a condolence
Mr. Mirabella was beloved by both Nevin and Stewart, two of his students at St.Anne's-Belfield School. He encouraged both boys to be the best students that they could and really was an inspiration to Stewart to put his best effort forward. He is and will be sorely missed
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Susan, John and Emily Mugler posted a condolence
Stephen Mirabella will never be forgotten by our family. He added so much to our child's life. He didn't just teach history, he made it come alive and gave Emily a love of history and art that will be in her heart and mind forever. Our favorite dinner time discussions were always lessons or talks of the day that Emily had with Mr. Mirabella. He not only was a teacher to his students but a true friend that always had his door open. He touched our lives and we are grateful for the opportunity to have known such a brillant and loving man. Our thoughts and prayers are with his entire family.
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White Family posted a condolence
We cherrish our memories of Steve's big smile.
He lives within the hearts and minds of our family. We were blessed with his spirit and dedication in the class room at St. Annes Belfield.
The White Family
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Courtney Krstich posted a condolence
I am in fifth grade and said a prayer for Mr. Marabella every night. I am so sad to hear the news but know that he is in heaven. My prayers will continue for his family.
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Courtney Krstich posted a condolence
I am in fifth grade and said a prayer for Mr. Marabella every night. I am so sad to hear the news but know that he is in heaven. My prayers will continue for his family.
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Gus Munoz posted a condolence
It is sad that you left this world at 52. I was upset when you moved to Virginia, and now I will miss you even more. I know that wherever you are, you will be making friends, teaching art and history, enjoying good food and wine, writing poetry, and touching everyone's life with laughter and friendship as you touched my life. I will surely miss you.
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Penny Clarke posted a condolence
Steve without fail exhibited a genuine caring for all his James River Day School students. His wonderful sense of humor and ready laugh brought joy to all who knew him. I noted and appreciated his willingness to stand up for the underdog as well as his undying devotion to Sigrid. I valued Steve as a true friend and adored him for the interest and pride he took in my two sons, Henry and Penn. Along with Sigrid, Steve was a
terrific chaperone in Rome, where he also mentored my son in sculpture. Steve did not deserve to suffer; my husband, sons, and I will miss him.
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MO Gaffney posted a condolence
Ingrid, Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers. Steve touched the lives of many and I feel greatful that three of my children had him for a teacher. I was so touched as he was awarded the apple teacher award last week. What a great role model as he fought cancer and continued teaching. I am sorry for your loss. We will continue to pray for you. The Gaffney family
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Ann Wicks posted a condolence
I can see Steve so clearly walking down the hall to class with a spring in his step and a gleam in his eye. I'll always treasure that long hug we shared on one of his recent visits to school. He will remain an inspiration to me and the many others whose lives he touched. My life is much the better for having known him as both a friend and colleague. My thoughts and love are with you all.
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The Keeling Family posted a condolence
What a wonderful teacher our son had for his 6th grade history class. He knew how to engage his students, make them excited about history and willing to work hard. Always with a smile on his face. We will miss him all dearly.
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Laura Robertson posted a condolence
Wonderful teacher, beloved friend, and devoted husband, Steve was an inspiration to us all. My thoughts and prayers are wish you.
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Laura Robertson posted a condolence
Wonderful teacher, beloved friend, and devoted husband, Steve was an inspiration to us all. My thoughts and prayers are wish you.
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The Bowser Family posted a condolence
In honor of a kind, gentle teacher who took the time to really notice our daughter. Peri continues to mention "Mr. Mirabella" even though she hasn't had him for a teacher in over a year, which underscores the depth which he touched students lives. Thoughts and prayers from the Bowsers
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The Witherows posted a condolence
Dear Sigrid,
We send our sincerest thoughts and love to you. We are grateful for our daughters'time with Steve in the classroom and as parents. Somer, our oldest, was foutunate to have been in Mr. Mirabella's advisory. It was a perfect match. We also are thankful for the time Wallace had this year. Along with this note, we send our prayers for your comfort and peace. We look forward to celebrating Steve's life in the weeks to come.
Sincerely, The Witherow Family
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Mary Gough posted a condolence
If I had been given the privilege of hand-selecting a brother, I would have selected Steve to fill that role. He was a dear friend, one whom we will all sorely miss. My love to you, Sigrid, and Tamara. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. Love, Mary Gough
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The Sanders Family posted a condolence
Sigrid,
Our hearts go out to you. "Mr. Mirabella" will be so missed by the entire Sanders family. Courtney dearly loved the time she had with him as a student. She prolonged that time by continuing to seek him out after she had moved to the next grade. He was a great teacher but also a wonderful friend to "parents" of his students. We will miss him greatly.
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The Giles Family posted a condolence
Sigrid,
I will always think of Steve as the Renaissance man, so interested in all the world has to offer. I am grateful that Margaret had him as a teacher for at least part of the year. She told me that he "got her" and that she "got him." He showed her the connections of life and history, and of thinking deeply. I feel he must have made his mark on many, many children like Margaret. I am grateful too that I had a chance to meet you. I loved our conversation.....my heart hurts for you. I will pray that you find your own peace with this tragedy.
With love,
Judy Giles
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Becky Silver posted a condolence
Steve was a favorite teacher to both of our boys (Tim and Nathan). Many nights at dinner, our family would discuss what he was teaching them that day, conversations initiated by the kids. It was truly wonderful to see how inspired they were by his class--so much so, that we took a trip to Italy this spring specifically to allow them to see the works of art and places he had taught them so much about. We will miss Steve and his passion for sharing his love of art and history. He touched our family in ways I am sure he did not know, and we we will be forever grateful. The Silver Family
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Doug and Annie Dodd posted a condolence
I admired Steve's natural strength and courage, and how he would "tell it like it is" in every situation, always with grace and style, and usually, with a big grin and a sparkle in his eye. This year, despite all the things Steve was going through, when he was in the classroom with his kids, his sparkle was brighter than ever. Of course, when I mentioned that to Steve, he said it was just the light reflecting off his bald head... then he grinned... and sparkled.
I am honored to have called him my dear best friend. I love you, Steve.
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Layla Lee O'Leary posted a condolence
I am so thankful for Steve and the happiness that he has brought to our family. I will remember most his warm smile, high-spirited laugh and sense of humor. Not to mention all his colorful shirts:)
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Lee O'Leary posted a condolence
Steve will always be that light that I saw light up my sister's life. He brought not only unconditional love as a husband but joy,adventure,excitement,kindness,more than I can list. There are no words to express how greatly he will be missed.
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Lee O'Leary posted a condolence
Steve will always be that light that I saw light up my sister's life. He brought not only unconditional love as a husband but joy,adventure,excitement,kindness,more than I can list. There are no words to express how greatly he will be missed.
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Lila Guthridge posted a condolence
Uncle Steve brought love and smiles to every holiday and family celebration!
He was enthusiastic and spunky! and helped us all laugh at ourselves.
His great niece and nephews will miss him and remember his bright smiles and warm hugs.
We will continue to laugh at ourselves and remember our GREAT uncle Steve.
We love you, Sigrid.
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Joe and Marisa Peluso posted a condolence
Steve was a classic. He was one of those gifts that just seem to come into your life by accident. We're better for having known him, and we'll miss him. Till we meet again Steve, you'll remain in our hearts.
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Lillian, Marianne, and Bryce Russo posted a condolence
Our thoughts and prayers go to Sigrid and all those who love Stephen. We hope that Stephen has traveled with ease, grace, and without fear to those who have passed before.
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Don Shuwarger posted a condolence
Steve was a special person in the lives of our family. He was a kind and gentle man with a talent for teaching and inspiring youth. I will miss him dearly.
Don
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Meris Shuwarger posted a condolence
Mr. Mirabella was one of the few teachers I have ever had that I can truly say changed my life. He has impacted me to this day, and I know that he will continue to do so all my life.
I will miss him dearly, but he will always have a special place in my heart.
My most sincere condolences,
Meris Shuwarger
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Briana Shuwarger posted a condolence
I shall always remember Stephen's beautiful smile, his hearty laugh, and the twinkle in his eyes. His talent was amazing, his creativity boundless, his teaching powerful, and his thoughts profound. He touched many lives and will be sorely missed.
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Marietta Munoz posted a condolence
This candle can not express the light that Stephen gave to all he loved. We were blessed to have him for his very short life. He gave all of himself to everyone he touched and he touched many, many people. He was gracious and strong.
Stephen was like a twin brother to me. We shared childhood memories and kept our own candles burning throughout our lives until his untimely end. When we lost Stephen we lost part of ourselves. Not many can compare with his strength, wisdom, knowledge and loving nature. He was the most caring husband to Sigrid and the best brother anyone could ever want to Elyse. He loved his children Tamera and Kirk and all the children who touched his life through family and those he taught. I know the whole family and community in which he lived and work, will never find anyone who could compare or hold a candle to him. There will never be another hero in my book quite like Stephen.
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Mike and April Waylett posted a condolence
I will always remember Steve's contagious smile, his passion for teaching, and his love for his students. I will never forget walking into his room and seeing his blackboard completely filled with notes. He wanted his students to know all he had learned and instill in them his passion for history. He was also a talented sculptor and writer. We miss him every day. Sigrid, you are in our thoughts and prayers.
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Yn Do Jones posted a condolence
Dear Stephen,
Good bye my friend.Your smile, your friendly encouragement,and the love you have for the chinese culture will always be with me, and it will always remind me of you .
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Joyce Kramar posted a condolence
Stephen Mirabella was a wonderful friend. He was Chairman of the Friends of the Library of Sweet Briar College and a great friend of the College. I also new Stephen through the blues society her. He was a great friend and a great man. A gentle and kind man. I will miss him.
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Jason Russo posted a condolence
I will miss Stephen.
He was someone I was always happy to see. Someone whose accomplishments I admire.
Stephen developed my current interest and appreciation of Renaissance Art. I always have, and always will think of him when I enter a museum of open a book about sculpture and renaissance art.
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Marietta Russo Munoz posted a condolence
Some thing I loved about being with you:
Staying up to hear the birds chirping in the wee hours of the morning listening to Bob Dylan and other records on the stereo. Relating so well together. Gerry spreading unfounded gossip about us.
Island Park - you loaned me your brand new tricycle that you'd just gotten for your birthday to go to the store and a truck ran it over... I don't think you cried or protested but I felt so bad.
Central Park sitting under the trees, you playing and singing Bob Dylan's 115th Dream...
Johnny's in the basement mixing up the medicine...You taught me all the words.
Our love of Aretha and sitting together singing and listening to her double tape of her greatest hits.
You taught me how to learn and how to love the process. I was always amazed by how much you knew.
How you were our personal tour guide in Italy and how much fun we had!
You telling me how when you were first talking as a small child but no one knew what you were saying and how frustrated you became from it as a toddler.
You hanging out with Raymond as a preteen when the Pirraglias came over.
The "enemas"/"animals" confusion with the 2 guys from the middle east when you Frank and I were driving... Oh God that was funny!!! Frank and I still laugh about it.
Your tender heart and good nature mixed with your boyish devil may care attitude. The gleam in your eyes with your wonderful smile.
Your bad boy days with Frank and picking you two up in the morning. Your wired jaw and you being sick to death of milkshakes!
Your love of Italian food.
Your David Bowie faze.
The way you cared for Elyse The friend and husband you were to Sigrid.
How you loved my mother.
How you loved my Children
How you cared so much for Jacob as a surrogate father until you dad told you to back off. How you regretted backing off.
How you always saw the good in him...
Funny timing Joe Dennis just called... we had fun the 3 of us, how close we all were growing up especially once your family moved permanently to Bayville.
Our lives were so intermeshed that we were like fraternal twins.
I felt so very loved by you Stephen and miss you so very much...
I am very proud of what you accomplished in your life time as short as it was.
Looking back at photos of all of us together in Delmarva in the photo of you that I took I noticed clues that you were sick then but who expected or knew that you and Elyse would get sick and pass away so very quickly.
Miss and Love you always.
Marietta
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Tamera posted a condolence
I miss you so much! I can't believe it has been a year. My heart is in pain. It still doesn't seem real expect for the pain & sadness. You shouldn't be gone! I love you so much!!!!!!!!
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Sigrid Mirabella posted a condolence
Thank you to all who have written about him here and keep his memory alive. I try to pretend that he is not truly gone.
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Chris Donegan Segall posted a condolence
I was so saddened to come across the obituary for Stephen. I was hoping against hope that it was not the Stephen I knew. Then I saw an old photo and read where he was from and my heart sank. I knew Stephen a long time ago, in another lifetime, it seems. I remember looking at him once, in his youth, and thinking, what a beautiful man. He had a light, an aura, that seemed to eminate from him. I am so impressed in reading of his many accomplishments and to see how that light continued to shine in so many aspects of his life. From the photos here, it is evident that he lived a happy and fulfilled life, that he loved greatly and was very loved in return. I am so, so sorry that his life was cut short, but it seems that it was fuller than many whose years stretched out far longer, but were full of empty spaces and "maybe tomorrows." I am happy that his life was the consummation of all his dreams and intelligence and kindness and curiosity. Few can say that. I am sure he is continuing the adventure. My heartfelt condolences go out to Stephen's beautiful and loving family.
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Mick Gregory posted a condolence
thanks for reaching out and encouraging me, and thanks for sharing you extensive knowledge of music with me, we all miss you, mick
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Risa (Levine) Palazzo posted a condolence
News of Stephen's death was such a shock. He grew up upstairs from me in Beech Hills,NY. His mother Grace, who was such a dear, gentle woman, babysat for me and my brother Joey. Also, Grace and Guy used to come downstairs some evenings to share a drink with my parents, marion and eli. Elyse was my earliest friend, who used to follow me around with her big brown eyes. The Mirabellas were such an important part of my childhood, teen years, it is hard to believe they are all gone, even Elyse and Stephen, now. I wish I would have reconnected with them over the years. The last time I remember Stephen, I was listening to him play guitar over my head -- since his room was just above mine! Another memory--his father, Guy, was the very first person to explain to me that the earth was a planet and that we were spinning in space (I was about 8 or nine). His mom, Grace, used to cook great pasta dishes and would bring down a giant casserole for my dad to enjoy when he got home from work -- I would get home from school and the hallway smelled divine on her special dinner days. I'd glance up the stairs of the tiny hallway we shared and hope she would remember to send down Elyse or Stephen with that casserole! He was a lovely boy and I am so pleased to hear how well he did in life and how many people grew to love him. Sigrid, I would love to hear from you, and hear more about "Little Stephen" and maybe share more of my memories of growing up sharing a ceiling/floor with the Mirabellas. Love and sympathy, Risa
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Tamera MORGAN posted a condolence
I love you and miss you. I wish I could share some of my recent food adventures with you. No one else enjoyed talking about food like you. Love you
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Suzanne Halka posted a condolence
I really appreciate having been part of the beautiful rememberance of Mr. Mirabella at St. Anne's last Saturday.
It was wonderful to hear what collegues, students, family, and friends (all were friends) had to say about him and was also wonderful to see the myriad of pictures that were dug out of dusty closets and put on display for all of us to the sound of some of his favorite music.
He was an amazing guy and it was wonderful to see the similar impact that he had on so many of us and to hear the memories that so many had of him. He was so well loved (deservingly) and it was wonderful for me to be part of the celebration. I feel like I know all of you at least a little bit, even if I do not even know your names, because I shared Mr. Mirabella and memories of him with you all.
Thanks so much to the St. Anne's community and to Sigrid.
Much love to you all,
Fondly,
Suzanne
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Suzanne Halka posted a condolence
(I wrote a tribute at the local funeral home’s site as soon as I heard, but did not know of this site until the beautiful memorial service at St. Anne's.)
Mr. Mirabella’s death has hit me pretty hard because I love him so much. I have never experienced the same type of up and down emotions and alternately deadpan and profound sadness as I have at varying times in the last few days. However, today I am finally together enough to write this.
Mr. Mirabella was more than a teacher to me as he was to so many others: he was a friend. Teacher, friend, uncle?, mentor--I realized at the service how many people he had touched in the same way. Mr. Mirabella was incredible to talk to and think with. He was very warm, showed his feelings beautifully, and always used his big heart to support others; he was also funny and creative and simply wonderful to be around. Add all this to his incredible talents in the art, music, and literature worlds as well as in the classroom and it is clear what an incredible person he was.
I remember that the first thing that struck me when I considered his classes was how he always respected our ideas as credible and equivalent in value to his own. Sadly, this was an unusual classroom experience, and I felt that a teacher who treated his students as peers he could discuss ideas with as opposed to youngsters he needed to mold was something special. As time went on, I got to know him as a friend as well as a teacher.
For the last couple years we have been apart in our own separate worlds, and I didn't realize how much I would miss Mr. Mirabella until I could never talk to or visit him again.
I always told everyone I got to know about Mr. Mirabella and how incredible he and his classes were. Now I realize that, beyond that, he was one of my favorite people and that I love him more deeply than I thought possible.
I hope he knew how much he meant to me and so many others. He touched me in innumerable ways.
The John and Yoko bedin "Think Different[ly]" (he couldn't help correcting Apple's grammar) poster has always been one of my most prized possessions, not only because it was my first Beatles poster, but also because Mr. Mirabella signed it. I now know that if John himself had signed it, the poster couldn't have meant as much to me as it does with Steve’s signature. (And that is really saying something coming from an insane Beatlemaniac like me). Now that poster and the Federation Credits I have will serve as concrete reminders of the incredible teacher and person Mr. Mirabella was; the wonderful times we had together; and the smile, laugh, and gentle but passionate voice I knew so well and loved so much.
Love always from,
Suzanne
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Debbie Huntington posted a condolence
Sigrid and family,
As you know, we were late hearing about Steve's passing. What a shock it was and what sadness it brought to our family.
Steve was such a special person. He was that "once in a lifetime" teacher and we are so happy we were able to know him for the time we did.
It meant so much to us to share the celebration of his life with you at St. Anne's Belfield yesterday and to hear all the wonderful things that were said by his colleagues, students, friends and family.
You know what a profound effect he had on Suzanne. As her mentor, he played a significant role in leading her to where she is today. Even more, he was a true friend to her.
We will miss him, but his memory will not be lost in our family.
My love to all of you,
Debbie
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Jansen Foster posted a condolence
I am a rising freshman at St. Anne's Belfield School. I was a student and advisee of Mr. Mirabella. He really was a great man and he will always be loved and never forgotten.
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Dave Partie posted a condolence
I did not know him well, but I appreciated his thought provoking, lyrical poetry when he would visit our Pied- mont Literary Society meetings in Lynchburg. May all he impacted continue to celebrate what his life meant.
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Chuck Russo posted a condolence
Steve Mirabella
My cousin, my brother, my friend.
Brilliant in multiple ways
As an artist
As a musician
As a teacher
When I look up the word cool in the dictionary, Steve's picture should be there
We did not know each other as kids although we were cousins. We met when my Grandmother passed away around 1987. About 2 years later, I moved to Bayville NY from Florida and stayed with Marietta and Gus in the downstairs of their home. Steve lived next door and was there the day I unpacked my bags. Steve was like an instant best friend, welcoming me to the fold as family. We spent a lot of time together on the North Shore, around Long Island, and all over Manhattan. The days of Steve's blues band were a golden time. There were gigs all over Long Island and Manhattan.
He was like an older brother, a mentor, a collaborator, a confidant. I miss him every day.
Some day we will raise our scotch glasses again and make our special toast "here's to the sons of Iggys".
Not on this earth, but I know he's near by.
I miss you Steve.
Chuck Russo
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Lee Freudberg and Kathy Welch posted a condolence
Steve did just amazing things for our son at St. Anne's-Belfield School. But it wasn't just his knowledge and skill at teaching that was so effective--it was his deep, warm compassion and contagious exuberance. We are so saddened by his death, and so grateful for his life.
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Debbie Ripley posted a condolence
During Steve’s battle with cancer, he gave a chapel at our school. Without a doubt, it was the most moving chapel I have ever heard. He talked about forgiveness, living life exuberantly, the power of prayer, and God’s love. I learned so many lessons from Steve that day and his words still echo in my mind. Sigrid, please be comforted by the knowledge that your beloved husband lives on this earth today, and always, in the hearts of so many.
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Megan Davies posted a condolence
I remember Mr. Mirabella at James River Day School. He was an excellent teacher, but I mostly enjoyed how he started an after school art program. He always brought happiness into whatever he did.
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Paddy Dougherty posted a condolence
Steve will continue to live in my heart and in every song I sing. Both he and Sigrid were very instrumental in encouraging me to find that inner voice and share it in song. Together they were a model of love. I learned so mcuh about what a beautiful relationship looks like just by being in their presence. Steve was a mentor to my daughter at James River Day School and an inspiring colleague to me. Above all, he was a great man and I'll miss him dearly.
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Michelle Lawson posted a condolence
I wish you and your family the best, it has been my pleasure to have met you and worked with you.
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The Neill Family posted a condolence
Steve was the most incredible teacher! My two children who were lucky enough to have him at St. Anne's Belfield said that he was, by far, their favorite. He made history come alive for kids and we feel so blessed to have had Steve share his passion with them. Our school and our family were both richer for having known him!
Sincerely,
Sally Neill
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bridget posted a condolence
I admire mr.mirabella's passion for teaching. He always had a smile on his face. He was ready to face any challange that came along. Mr.Mirabella is the best teacher.
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Mrs. S. Genossar posted a condolence
My son started St. Annes Belfield school last Jan. in the middle of the year. Mr. M. was his favorite teacher. Infact, My son felt that Mr. M. was so inspiring and made class so interesting that Daniel came home from his 1st visit at S.T.A.B. and said "Now I know what's so great about this private school- they get teachers like Mr. M. to work for them and kids love to go to class!" I will be eternally grateful to Mr. M. for making the decision to go to S.T.A.B. so easy for Daniel. We only spoke a few times but he made me feel so good about my son and that he was so happy to have him in his class and as an addition to the S.T.A.B. family. Thank you Mr. M. you will always be remembered as the teacher that lit the way.
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courtney posted a condolence
Mr. Mirabella was one of the BEST teachers at stab. He will be an angel watching over us all the time. I am saying prayers for his family.
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Dan Breen posted a condolence
Steve, The world is poorer without you. Your poet's soul and humor brought me joy and fun throughout our years teaching together. Requiescas in pace.
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Derin Foor posted a condolence
I met Steve when Sigrid hired me as her farrier for her horse Bacchus. It was a pleasure doing business with such fine people. I would often end my day at their farm and enjoyed spending that extra time just talking with Steve and Sigrid. The passion with which he taught was undeniable and I'm certain that his students have been blessed to have had him as their teacher. Rest in peace my friend. We'll meet again someday.
Derin
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Karen posted a condolence
I met Steve and Sigrid when they started attending our church, Hinton Ave UMC. I will always remember Steve's smile and his quiet demeanor. I wished we would have had more time to 'really' get to know each other. Like I told Sigrid today, I knew there was a lot more to that beautiful smile (after our Pastor read an article published in a Lynchburg newspaper). I knew he was a teacher at St. Anne's but didn't realize how many young lives he touched until reading all the memorials written. Steve rest in peace. Sigrid, you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. Remember, one day you will be with your Steve again.
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Randi Rogerson posted a condolence
I think my first memory of Steve was that I thought he looked like a rock star. Then, as I got to know him I wished my stepfather was more like him, because he treated everyone like they were equally special to him, which many fathers and stepfathers cannot say. He was definitely a cool guy, and one of the best artists I have ever seen. I knew him before he was sick, and I am so sorry to hear of his struggle. My heart goes out to Sigrid and his family.
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MB Bowler posted a condolence
It's hard to know where to begin...Mr. Mirabella taught me in 7th and 8th grade at James River (10 or so years ago) and I have so many fond memories of him. He even insisted on writing recommendations for me as I was applying to colleges years later. Last summer I was thrilled to see him, with his wife, at the Nelson County Summer Festival...and was so looking forward to seeing them at this year's festival (sadly, next weekend). And I know that by this point it has been said countless times, but he will be sorely missed.
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Claus Mager posted a condolence
Dear Sigrid,
I heard about Steve's passing on through Peggy Hayes via email. Just a couple of weeks ago I was thinking about TRUEBLUE and how all of you guys might be doing. I don't remember if it was June 3rd, but maybe Steve flew by me to say goodbye? He was always a funny and comforting friend and goodnatured and creative band member. I miss him a lot and send you and your daughter my heartfeld condolences. Please feel free to contact Laura and me anytime.
Love and happy memories with grooving greetings
Claus Mager
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