Contributions to the tribute of Elizabeth A. James

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bonnie seaman posted a condolence

Dearest Bette, You were the cool, popular kid in school that I always tried to copy. Thank you for making mud pies with me, getting me off of fence tops when I got stuck, sharing a locker with me, making me laugh, and always caring about me. I will always miss you.

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Beverly Evans posted a condolence

Oh my, Betty and I were short gals in O.B. We often made jokes about ourselves. Hmmm, back n the day @ Glen Cove Rd, we could chill over her house. She really was a kind sistah! I will miss her smile, sincere wit, organizing leadership, and The Fourth of July. To Tia, and the Family, my heart pours out with deepest sorrow. Though I was not able to be with you I share your lost and I am with you in spirit. I hope that you find comfort in knowing that God is always there. Just call on him. His grace will bring peace to heal your hearts. Love always, Beverly Evans

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Lorraine Gladd posted a condolence

dear betty I will miss your smiling face and your friendship. You will never be forgotten you will always be in my heart,prayers and thoughts. till we meet again

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Bettyanne posted a condolence

My Dear Friends, the James Family: Although Bette is not physically here with you, her presence will always be felt. There will be times that you know she is watching you and is with you and helping you, especially with her children and grandchildren who she loves so much. Pray and talk to her often, Bette will hear every word. My thoughts and prayers are with you all and I join in your sorrow. Love, Bettyanne

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Michele and Shadri Francis posted a condolence

So very sorry and sad to learn of your loss.She will be missed by many.May Grace and Peace be yours in abundance.

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Dianne Clynes posted a condolence

I remember Bette as being a very happy person, loving to all and very involved in Church and Family. I feel lucky to have had her as my friend. Rest in Peace, Bette

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Bobbi Ciccia posted a condolence

DEAR BETTE, YOU WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN - YOU ARE LOVED BY ALL - ALWAYS IN OUR HEARTS - WILL MISS YOU ALWAYS - TILL WE MEET AGAIN. LOVE YOUR FRIEND BOBBI

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Sonji and Will Patrick posted a condolence

Aunt Bette showed us love, gentle kindness and generosity in the 12+ years that we knew her. We wish her children and the entire James family God's strength and comfort as you go through this sorrowful time. With love and prayers, Sonji and William Patrick

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Phyllis Biondo posted a condolence

Jennette & Family, I am so sorry for your loss. May God keep you all in the palm of his hand and give you strength at this very sad time. My prayers are with all of you.

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Pat Kabelka posted a condolence

Dear Bette, You were a good friend and sister CSEA officer. I have fond memories of many workshops and conventions. (Don't forget the headset so you don't have to listen to the non-stop talking). There will be an angel in the outfield for the Mets this year and forever. Rest in peace my friend! Pat

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Chris Vegna posted a condolence

To the James Family, We are so sorry for the loss of Bette. She was a lovely person and will be missed. You will all be in our thoughts and prayers. God bless her wonderful family. Love, Chris and Doug

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Auntie posted a condolence

To the family and Tee, A golden heart stopped beating-hard working hands at rest. God broke our hearts to prove to us. He only takes the best. Auntie and family

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Saqueena Callender posted a condolence

Your smile will never be forgotten and your prescence will always be felt. We will miss seeing you on July 4th at the park.

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Katigbak Family posted a condolence

Leo, Malu and the entire Katigbak family and friends extend our warmest condolence to the family of the late Betty James. With deepest sympathy, our thoughts and prayers are with you. Leo and Malu

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Sandra Hunt posted a condolence

To God be the Glory...... On behalf of Rev. and Mrs. David Hunt and the Hunt family, we would like to extend our deepest and most heartfelt sympathies. To the James and Goodrich families. Bette has gone home to claim her reward for a job well done, as a Good and Faithful Servant of our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ. May God contine to Comfort you, Bless You, and Keep you wrapped in His safe and Loving arms. Sincerely, Sandra Hunt and the entire Hunt family

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William posted a condolence

Dear Aunt Bette, I hope you are feeling better. I wish you were here right now. I miss you alot. I hope you are watching us when we are at sunday school seeing how good we are. i love you alot. You are a good aunt to me and a good grandma to your grandchildren . Thank you for planning all of the family reuions and all the gifts that you gave me for christmas. I still remeber the songs that you taught us in sunday school and how we singed them on our way to sunday school. I will always love you and miss you. from william bonilla jr

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Bobbi EISGRAU posted a condolence

BETTE WAS NOT ONLY MY GOOD FRIEND BUT SHE WAS DEFINATELY MY MENTOR. WE SHARED MANY WONDERFUL TIMES TOGETHER . SHE WAS CERTAINLY AN ASSET TO THE UNIONS WOMENS COMMITTEE. Her loving smile and her memory will always remain in my heart. Rest in peace BETTE. I WILL MISS YOU.

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Charlene Walker posted a condolence

Bette you were a true friend with great strength and I am missing you very much. I know you are with God now watching over us. You are at peace now, no more pain I am very sad but I am also happy to have had you as a dear close friend of many years Thank You... Char

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Whitney Lynn posted a condolence

My God Mother Bette you taught me so many things, to have known you is a blessing from God I will always remember every moment I spent with you. I feel like I did not have enough time to tell you how much I love you so I hope you know.

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Britt & Deanna & kids posted a condolence

Bette you were a wonderful person & you will always be special in our hearts. Now that you are gone you will be deaply missed. God Bless You & your family

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Whitney Lynn posted a condolence

I look in my picture book everday looking at our pictures from Jens wedding that we took & the ones I took of you with mommy & Charlene & Sissy. I havn't stopped crying, I am so sad that you have left us but I feel your presence with me always. Please continue to watch over me I am missing you. I Love you...

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Whitney Walker posted a condolence

I give my blessings & condolences to the family. I will miss & Love my God Mother very much & I am very devistaded by her passing. I know that she is in Heaven with God & she is watching over us, she is in pain no more. Jen & Joe know that I love you both very much stick together & take care of each other. God has blessed us with her years on earth and now we are blessed with her memories. I Love You Betty love Your Whitney Lynn

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Holly Timpson posted a condolence

Bette I know you are standing with our Lord. And all our relatives. Remember Bette all the fireman fairs went to. And the great July 4th picnics. Bette I hope you know your missed and definitely & loved. I Love you Bette. Bob and Holly and Aaron

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marcus mccloud posted a condolence

thank you for all the things you did for me,and rest in heaven aunt bette.i will miss you.

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Bernadette posted a condolence

Dear Bette, I am honored that you considered me one of your friends but I feel I was the one blessed to have you for my friend. I will never forget our "Carltun" days from coats all over and never losing one and our races to see whose side of the room would get rid of their coats first. Jen would be on the other side of the curtain wondering what in the world we were laughing about. (Speak English!!!) I will miss you always and love you forever.

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David, Laura & Jason posted a condolence

Dear Bette, There are so many wonderful things I could and will say about you. The most important one of all is, I will miss you as much as I miss my mother (she will be waiting for you at the gates of heaven). One of the things I never told you, I loved the way you took care of your big sister/my mother. One of my fondest memories was whenever we (the Brooks family) returned from Europe, the plane would land and at the bottom of the ramp would be the James sisters. While my mother and her sister got reacquainted, I would look through the crowd of faces to see your smiling face. At that moment I always know that I was home. The one thing nobody will ever be able to take away from you is “You were and are the Champion for the young ones. You made sure the Easter egg hunts happened, every kid received cards and gifts for their birthdays, and there were always plenty of Christmas gifts for all the kids. You did that when I was a kid and you were still doing it now for my son. You will be MISSED!! Tia, Joseph, MaryAnn, Javonte, Lil Joe, Jennifer, Duke, Jamel, and Jasha things may never be the same but they will get better, I PROMISE. If there is anything that we can do you know where to find us!! Love, LaMonte, Laura, and Jason.

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Jovonna Rodriguez posted a condolence

My heart goes out to Donald and Jennifer.. You mom was a precious stone and will be missed. She not only raised u two but she raised a neighborhood of kids...I will keep you guys in my prayers ... love Jovonna and Family

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Shakira Baby posted a condolence

Dear Anut bette When I heard what happend i was crying alot and couldnt stop. Im really going to miss you and i will still love you with all my heart. Im thanking you for driving us back and fourth to sunday school. It wont be the same with out you like the family reuions. Sense little Joey is still very young when he grows up i will tell him everything about you. My mom said that your not by yourself and that you have your brothers and sisters and your father well i hope you do. I wish you can come back. I dont know why it happend i prayed everynight for you to feel better. Well I love and miss you and still will. My mom wrote shakira baby because thats what u called me. I hope that your watching over me and the whole family because we love you.love,Shakira

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Shaun Anthony posted a condolence

To My Dearest Aunt and Godmother, You will be greatly missed.I know you are in good hands and will always look over your family as an Angel would do.Now you can rest. I will always hold onto those wonderful memories I have of you,all those sleep overs and those rough days I gave you when you had to babysit me. You were an Aunt with so much love to go around. You will never be forgotten. My prayers go out to Joe,Jenn, Tia,Jamel,Javonte,Jasha and Joey. I love you all. P.S. I am still drinking that"pepsi".

Richard Reiner posted a condolence

For our own selfish reasons we are saddened by our loss, some of us more than others. Please do not be mad at God for calling his child home. For his devine reasons that we will never understand, he has called Betty home. Knowing the kind of wonderful person she is, than you can rejoice in the fact that there must have been a tremendous task that our Heavinly Father knew that she, and only she could fill in the Heavenly Kingdom. I am very sorry for the loss of (Jimmy's MOM) She will truly be missed. Remember God created Betty, in his image of what she was, A Loving, Caring, Kind, Gentile, Beautiful person, yes he broke the mold when he made her. I am very glad to have known her, if the rest of the world were 1/10 as special as Betty, then the world would truly be peaceful and happy place. Whatever task God has called Betty home for He knows as well as we all know that Betty is way way over qualified. Once again I'm truly sorry to the whole family. God bless all of you!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Jaron Ronald Batts posted a condolence

I love my Aunt Bette with all my might and I mean it.Even though shes gone shes still in my heart no matter what.I wanted to cry all day but I was in school and then I would of had to go outside and get it together and it would of been the whole school day.So I waited to I got home.And I have nothing but love for my Aunt Bette and I will do anything to bring her back.But its to late But like my mom said "just keep those good memories and you will be happy." Love ,Jaron R.Batts

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Donna posted a condolence

Dear Bette- For 23 years I was proud to call you my friend. In my life I have never met anyone more respected and more loved then you. You will always be a part of me. I will forever remember the good times we shared. Good bye my dear friend. Love, Donna

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Claudia Devlin posted a condolence

Bette, I miss you so much you were not only my co-worker you were my friend and I will never forget you as long as I live. I miss talking to you about our grandchildren. We had a lot of laughs together. You were a wonderful, generous, warm and loveable person, everyone loved you. You were like a mother to all of us, you did everything for us and when we had a problem with work, all we had to do was call on you and you took care of it. Your memory will live on forever. Say hello to John Carbone for me. LETS GO METS! Make sure you play your Lotto and John plays his horses. Love you forever, Claudia

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Elaine Ditzel posted a condolence

Dear Bette, I am so sad to see you leave us. When I first began working at IGA you made me feel so confortable and we became fast friends. Your honesty, sincerity, integrity, and spirituality made me love you..you were REAL..no pretenses. I will always remember the laughter we shared and the good times we had whether it was going to the theatre, enjoying the football and baseball pools, sharing a novel, or planning a party. whenever I had a problem I knew I could share it with you and it would go no further. I remember how you loved Disney World...Mickey was your favorite (I think). If each of our "heaven" is where we would most like to be, I think you will spend eternity in Disney World with all your loved ones. Thank you, Bette, for being such a good friend. There is a place in my heart for you and I will miss you terribly. God must have decided that your job here on earth was accomplished, but for all of us, it was too soon. Rest in peace, my dear friend. Pray for all of us and watch over us as we will be praying for you. Love, Elaine

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Karen posted a condolence

To have known you, was to love you. You were a mover and a shaker, a leader and one of the most honorable people I have known. You always had a smile on your face and I can hear you say, Hey Ka, as I am writing this. I loved sharing the childhood fads we knew. No one else knew what I was taking about, but you! I loved singing Motown songs with you. I could only wish that my light will come close to shining as bright as yours did, for the rest of my life. It was a privilege to have known and worked with you. You will always have my love and be in my heart and of course have my R-E-S-P-E-C-T...forever

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Tony Townsend posted a condolence

Sweet pea You will always be in my heart.I shall never forget the love and precious friendship we shared.You were one of the reasons my memories of growing up in Oyster Bay is so wonderful.You never changed. Bless you " Sweet Pea ". There will always be a special place in my heart for you, as always.. Love tony

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Javonte Chandler posted a condolence

Hi Grandma, sorry to see you go and I miss you very much. And Joey too! Thank you for everything you did for me like taking me to Sunday school and taking me to see Lion King in broadway and more........I love you and please watch over me. Love, Vante

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Cathy Baumgarten posted a condolence

Bette is my friend. Her caring spirit has counseled me in good times and in sad. She encouraged me to give blood and donate to breast cancer research and enjoy cultural arts by attending Broadway plays. When I was troubled by emotional issues, she was a compassionate listener and brought hope to the situation. I shall miss her physical presence. I shall feel her spirit around me always. Rest in peace, friend.

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Poonam Guleria posted a condolence

Please accept our heart felt condolences for the loss of your loved one. Poonam Guleria and the Bethpage Staff at North Fork

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The Greene's posted a condolence

Bette, God has blessed us to have had you in our lives, you are truly a beautiful person inside and out. You will be missed by many. We pray that you are at peace now & we hope that you can watch over all of us..as Angels' do. Please tell Ellen that we love her & miss her. With all our love, Leo, Laura & Hannah Greene

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Linda Tengelsen posted a condolence

Dear Frani and Family -- "Precious in the sight of the Lord is the death of one of His saints." (Psalm 116:15) Thank God for His wonderful promise that He has prepared a place for us, and rejoice in the knowledge that Bette is enjoying her place with Him right now. Death is not the end -- just the beginning of eternity with Him. You are all in my toughts and prayers. God's blessings.

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Geneva posted a condolence

Bette: From the day I walked into the office you made me feel welcome. I knew then you were a wonderful person by your warmth and kindness. Over the few years I did get to know you your personality never changed. You were never to busy to lend a helping hand. Thank you for who you were. My prayers are with your family and may your soul rest in peace.

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Cheryl posted a condolence

You know how much I care for you. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

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ashley posted a condolence

Aunt Bette, you were always very special to me, and i'm so sorry that i didn't get a chance to say goodbye. But I know that you are in a better place, amongst people who love you. And that gives me some peace of mind. Please know that I will always love and miss you greatly. Love Always Ash.

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Yolanda Flores posted a condolence

May God Bless you all and Help you coupe. My Deepest sympathy Yolanda Flores

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Danielle posted a condolence

Miss Bette James, Words cannot describe how much you will be missed. I have always loved being around you. There was a time when I called you 'mom' and will cherish every memory. My prayers and thoughts are with your family now. I love you, miss Bette James..... You will be in my heart forever. Love Always, Danielle

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april posted a condolence

I can never say how I will miss you.But you know that.I will always remeber the good times that we had.Love you always.

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Marge Becker posted a condolence

I know how close you were to your mother-in-law and how difficult this must be for you. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

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Lucia posted a condolence

Dear Maryann, I am sorrowful for your loss, and yet know that in your memories Elizabeth will live on. Lucia

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Dimples posted a condolence

Betty a.k.a. Twin Beautiful, Lovely, Funny, Birthday Twin & Met Fan. Missed Forever but Never Forgotten. I'll Always think of you on the 23rd of November and sitting at Shea Stadium on Fireworks night. I Love You Betty "TWIN"

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Christel Frazier posted a condolence

I just want to express my love and thoughts to my family. Stay strong and my prayers are with you.

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Kathy Langan posted a condolence

Dear Bette, You have lived a full and generous life even though it was taken from you too soon. You were a significant presence in the lives of your family and friends. You will be missed dearly. Memories will keep you alive. Rest in peace.

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Kenneth Lee posted a condolence

Dear Bette- Rest in peace, my friend. I've known you for thirty years but it doesn't seem so long ago that Joe & Jen were kids & we were hanging out at Bloomingdale Ave. School. If being too considerate is a fault, then you were guilty. If being too generous is bad, then you were really good at that too. I will be always grateful to you because you were one of the people most supportive for me when I lost my mom. I teased you over the years because you were one of my favorites & I sincerely hope you realized that. When I complimented you, I almost always meant it. I sometimes thought you didn't take praise well because you did not want the credit...but you seemed to be in the middle of everything! So go split a Lotto ticket with John Carbone & we'll see you guys down the road. Love ya, Ken(Kathy, Loren & KC)

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Colin posted a condolence

Bette- I will always remember how your kindness and calm demeanor could always put people at ease. I will never forget when I first came to work for the Town, you immediately treated me as a friend and made me feel at home. I will always remember you with the fondest memories as a good friend, who people loved to be around. God bless. -Colin

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Mary Abbatiello posted a condolence

For Bette, A quote from George Washington Carver says it all about you..."So...how far you go in your life, depends on you being TENDER WITH THE YOUNG.. COMPASSIONATE WITH THE AGED...SYMPATHETIC WITH THE STRIVING....AND TOLERANT OF THE WEAK AND THE STRONG....BECAUSE IN YOUR LIFE...YOU WILL HAVE BEEN ALL OF THESE..".. Rest Peacefully Mary A

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Rodney Camps posted a condolence

I didn't know her personally but I work with her sister Claudette who always speaks fondly of her family. I know she will be missed. My prayers go out to the family.

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Natasha Allen posted a condolence

Dear Aunt Bette, I will miss you dearly. I have a ton of memories that I will always have of you. I want to THANK YOU for all of your hard work with the children and Sunday School. I want to THANK YOU for all of the trips you have planned for us, I will never forget the places we have gone with you as a child, I want to THANK YOU for all the love you gave me and my children. You will always be a part of me. I LOVE YOU! Sleep Well Aunt Bette. Love Always "Tot Baby"

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lawrence (lare) brooks posted a condolence

Dear Bett-Bett, you can't imagine how difficult it is for me to say goodbye to you. When I see you or hear you, I see or hear my dearest Mother, Joyce. I thank God for the your unexpected visit to Stone Mountain this past fall, perhaps that was my pre-destined chance to say goodbye. How special it is now realizing that seeing you in Stn. Mtn. park was also the last place I took my Mother, your sister, before she left 'this place.' I've loved you since I first laid my infants eyes on you and I'll miss you forever!

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Wayne Brooks and Family posted a condolence

You are all in our thoughts and in our prayers. Aunt Bette was truely a beautiful person

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John posted a condolence

I didn't know Bette personally but I know Pat well and know how much her family means to her. I wanted to extend my sympathy. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this sad time.

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lawrence (lare) brooks posted a condolence

Dear Bett-Bett, you can't imagine how difficult it is for me to say goodbye to you. When I see you or hear you, I see or hear my dearest Mother, Joyce. I thank God for the your unexpected visit to Stone Mountain this past fall, perhaps that was my pre-destined chance so say goodbye. How special it is now realizing that seeing you in Stn. Mtn. park was also the last place I took my Mother, your sister, before she left 'this place.' I've loved you since I first laid my infants eyes on you and I'll miss you forever!

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Jeanine Green posted a condolence

Aunt Bette, I always admired your strength and how you always thought of others. You always made me feel special and welcomed. I hope that one day I will be appreciated, loved and respected as deeply as you were. And most of all, I will miss the way you called my name. "Heeeyyyyy Jeanine Greeen". I will love you always, Jeanine

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Laura Brooks posted a condolence

Dear sweet Aunt Bette: How truly blessed I have been to have been able to call you my "aunt" for the past 12 years. Your amazing spirit, wonderful sense of humor and contagious love of fun has brightened my life. God truly blessed me when he led me to the James family! I will miss you very much. I always loved being around you. And I loved watching how nurturing you were to your children and grandchildren. The immense love you have for them is so obvious to all. Joe, Jen, Mary Ann, Duke and your grandchildren are so blessed to have had you in their lives. Not everyone gets the chance to have a mother like you. I pray that you are at peace now and I know that my mother-in-law was there to welcome you with open arms. Tell her I miss her! I am proud to have known you and honored to have loved you. Jen & Joe, may God bring you some solace. I love you both! Tia, no words are good enough but please know that you are in my prayers and in my heart. love, Laura

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Hank and Gale posted a condolence

We will miss you even though we did not see you often. I will always still say you are and were the favorite. Love to Tia, Joe, Jenn and the Grandchildren. Your Big Brother Hank..

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Jennette (Shanet) posted a condolence

Bette, your name for me was Shanet. You left us too soon. You were my baby sister but I did depend on you and go to you for advice. Boy, am I going to miss you. Rest in the Lord's arms. I love you.

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Jack and Becky Crabtree posted a condolence

Our love, thoughts and prayers are with each of you at this difficult time. Friends of Frani Hicks

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Diana Stager posted a condolence

Dearest Bette, I have worked with you for 12 years at the Town of Oyster Bay. From the moment I arrived you made me feel like I belonged and quickly made me feel at home. I joined the Theater Club, Sunshine, Lotto, countless pools. You, my dear friend brought sunshine to so many people with your love for life, family and friends. You lived your life with integrity, respect, pride and truth. I feel truly bless to call you "My Best Friend", (a title I must share with many other people).Because I knew in by heart that I could tell anything and you would not judge me and always be honest whether, I wanted to hear it or not. I will never forget you and will miss you. We have lost the Heart Beat of IGA. Until we meet again. Love Diana, Big John, Leanna and John.

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Patti (Pabbi) posted a condolence

Bette, Although you are my baby sister you were always wiser and smarter than me. You taught me the days of the week, how to count, how to read and how to ride a bike. We were inseparable throughout our childhood and we were always being mistaken for the other. You are my friend and confidant and I don’t know what I’ll do without you in my life. Tia, Jen and Joe will miss as well as the rest of our family and your many friends. I miss you, Love, Patti (Pabbi)

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Martha posted a condolence

Bette, You have been a wonderful sister and friend. You were always so energetic whether she was planning an event or rooting for the Mets. I already miss you. My love to Tia, Joe, and Jen, and the grandchildren. Love you, Mart

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Lori Ward posted a condolence

My Dearest Bet, Some people come into your life that touch you forever. "Bet" you were that person to me. We had a special bond from the moment we met and the rest is history. We shared everything together from family memories, to tv shows and secrets. We even shared Our Mets! The Town and I will never be the same without you. You've always had my back and I'll forever have your heart. You will be deeply missed. I Love You Forever & Let's Go Mets! Love, Your Lor

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Buttons & Jessey Rose posted a condolence

Although we did not know Bette personally, we did through Pat's kind words and love of her sister and family. Our deepest sympathy, thoughts and prayers are with you all during this time of sorrow.

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(My) Frani posted a condolence

My Bette, Oh how I love you. From a baby to an adult, you have been special. As our family tour guide you were Bette's Bus Tours. You'll always have a very special place in my heart. God loves you and so do I. Frani

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Meg posted a condolence

Bette, You have touched so many lives with your kindness and love. I am proud to say you were my friend! You will be forever loved and forever missed! All my love, Meg

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Barbara posted a condolence

Bette: It has been a Joy to have known you and worked with you on several committees through the years. I will miss your friendship and your smiling face. My sincere sympathy to your family. Barbara

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Iris posted a condolence

Bette (Liz) – I cannot find words to adequately express the hole in my heart from your loss. I am trying to fill it with the many beautiful memories I have of you. I can picture you coming in to work whether I met you in the parking lot or in the office; you always had that big smile and said, “Hi - I”. That smile would light up the whole room – everyone loves that warm smile. I lovingly remember trips to Manhattan with Jamel and Ashley, Theater club trips, Church bake sales, family birthdays, weddings, lunches together, the ritual of taking the morning “pill” – (pill in one hand, glass of water in the other, “Don’t look at me!”) There are so many memories I will cherish forever. You are such an exceptional person who has touched so many lives in so many ways. I have always admired you. You have always had the natural ability to meet people for the first time and make them feel as if they were one of your life long friends. You make everyone feel “warm and fuzzy” – as many people have said to me in the past few weeks “Everyone loves Bette!” You always championed the “underdog” and stood your ground when someone was being treated unfairly. It was a very natural progression for you to extend the charitable work that you have done for your Church to other organizations. You were always planning something! Having been raised Catholic; I have always loved and had faith in God. When you told me you were sick, I kept asking God “Why? - this is not fair”. I know your deep abiding love for and faith in God and I can hear you telling me to “Put it in God’s hands”. You always found a way to lift my spirits and knew exactly what to say to bring comfort to someone. The Bible instructs us to give to those in need; you did that every day of your life. You gave with your kind words, wonderful deeds, and with that vibrant smile. You really are an embodiment of the woman Chaka sings about – “Every Woman” - kind, helpful, caring, giving, loving, nurturing, and supportive. You and I have shared thoughts about many different subjects from our families to what is going on in the world today. In the process we laughed, cried, we were proud, we were afraid, and we comforted each other. I miss you so much and I will carry you in my heart forever. Your family has lost a truly wonderful person who made an indelible mark on the world. My love and prayers go out to your entire family, which you have always made me feel a part of. Until we meet again my dear friend.

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Diane Desvignes posted a condolence

Hi Bette,I sent you an angel to watch over you last night but it came back I asked why? god said,"angels don't watch over angles" I extend my deepest sympathies to my sister-in-law [Jen] and her family. god be with you now and always.

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Lois Warshauer posted a condolence

You were & are the heart of E&T. When I think of you I think of your ability to make people work together & get the job done. For years you were in charge of the extras like Sunshine, parties & planning. Nothing was ever too much for you. Your schedule of daily good deeds touched so many at work, the union, the church & the community & so much more. I will think of you & always miss you.

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Mary D'Antonio posted a condolence

My sincere sympathy to Bette's family and friends. Bette was a great union activist, fighting for many causes, especially fighting for women's issues. Bette will be missed for her hard work and positive attitude. I'll miss seeing her at the slot machines in Atlantic City. May God Bless and Keep Her Soul Close to His Heart. Mary D'Antonio

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Christine Urbanowiecz posted a condolence

Bette you will shine on in the many lives you touched in your sisters and brothers in CSEA. You will be greatly missed. You were a special person and I'm glad you had the chance to touch my life.

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Kelly Reardon Santosus posted a condolence

To My Dear Friend Bette: All i can say is thank you.... thank you for being such a special friend, coworker, human being...you will never know how much you meant to me and how proud i was to have you as a friend. The memories i have of you are all beautiful ones.. filled with laughter and smiles. I wouldnt trade one moment of time we shared together for anything in the world. I hope you are at peace and i know i will see you again one day. Love you always...

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Kelly Reardon Santosus posted a condolence

To My Dear Friend Bette: All i can say is thank you.... thank you for being such a special friend, coworker, human being...you will never know how much you meant to me and how proud i was to have you as a friend. The memories i have of you are all beautiful ones.. filled with laughter and smiles. I wouldnt trade one moment of time we shared together for anything in the world. I hope you are at peace and i know i will see you again one day. Love you always...

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SHELLEY DAVIDSON posted a condolence

GOD MUST HAVE NEEDED SOMEONE AS KIND NAD SWEET AS BETTE, UP IN HEAVEN. SHE WAS ALWAYS WILLING TO HELP WITH WHATEVER WAS HAPPENING AND NEVER HAD AN UNKIND WORD FOR ANYONE OR ANYTHING. SHE WILL BEMISSED TERRIBLY BY ONE AND ALL. REST IN PEACE BETTE, YOU ARE NOW OUT OF YOUR PAIN AND IN A FAR BETTER PLACE.

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Rose posted a condolence

Bette- You were my first friend when I came to work for the town 23 years ago. You were at my wedding to David, in fact you were the one to help me find a churh to have the ceremony in. Jen was Chris' babysitter when she was in Jr. High. When we were adopting Matt, you were the first one there with gifts to set up his crib whenwe wern't ready and they were bringing him home to us permanently. When we decided to get involved in the union, you were my running mate. Our lives have been intertwined for so many years, I can't go through a day without thinking of you. The last time I spoke to you, you told me the only thing you needed from me was to keep praying, and you told me you loved me. I never stopped praying, and I will never stop loving you. Tia, Jen, Joe, Jamel, Javonte,Jasha, Joey, Mary Ann,and Duke -you are all in my thoughts and prayers. Be-Boppin, you will be so missed by so many people - you touched so many for long. Love you always- Rose

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Rose posted a condolence

Bette- You were my first friend when I came to work for the town 23 years ago. You were at my wedding to David, in fact you were the one to help me find a churh to have the ceremony in. Jen was Chris' babysitter when she was in Jr. High. When we were adopting Matt, you were the first one there with gifts to set up his crib whenwe wern't ready and they were bringing him home to us permanently. When we decided to get involved in the union, you were my running mate. Our lives have been intertwined for so many years, I can't go through a day without thinking of you. The last time I spoke to you, you told me the only thing you needed from me was to keep praying, and you told me you loved me. I never stopped praying, and I will never stop loving you. Tia, Jen, Joe, Jamel, Javonte,Jasha, Joey, Mary Ann,and Duke -you are all in my thoughts and prayers. Be-Boppin, you will be so missed by so many people - you touched so many for long. Love you always- Rose

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Sandee Horowitz posted a condolence

Words can not express how wonderful Bette lived her life for the mission of CSEA/Women's Committee & Education & Training Committee. She will be deeply missed.

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Nydia Concepcion posted a condolence

To the family of the beloved Betty James, there are no words to express the pain that you are going through. My thoughts and prayers goods out to all of you. BETTY REST IN PEACE IN THE LORDS PRESENCE

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Mary Ann posted a condolence

To My Sweet and Loving "Mother-in-law", You are one in a million. You were always there for me.Thanks for everything you've done for us and all the memories. I love you and will miss you. Mare

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Stephanie Elmore posted a condolence

Dear Bette, I have nothing but fond memories with you. From you watching me when I was younger, to singing with you in the choir, to you always embrassing me with a hug and a bright smile and a "Hey Steph"... I will ALWAYS remember your smile! You will be deeply missed but I know your in a better place where you were greeted by so many of our loved ones!

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Jennifer-Jen posted a condolence

Dear Mommy, I will always love you and miss you. See you on the other side.I would like you to wake up now and stop playing with me. See you soon! Love always,Jennifer P.S. I'm going to get my license.

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Joe Leo posted a condolence

To My Grandma, I know that you are now in heaven and that you'll always watch over me.I love you very very much!!!I will miss you! Happy Valentines Day Grandma! Joey

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Jamel posted a condolence

Graham Cracker, It's your oldest grandson. I love you so much and want to thank you for everything you did for me. I love you and will miss you always! Mush

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Laura Gallagher posted a condolence

My deepest sympathies to all of Bette's family and friends. Bette was such a caring person, always willing to help out and a very dedicated union activist. She will be greatly missed by so many people.

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Donna Williams posted a condolence

My dearest twin Bette, In my heart are my memories of the fireman's fair, sleep-overs, playing hide-and-seek in grandma's attic, and you ALWAYS being there for me. You are in the house of Lord now with no pain. Rest my sweet Bette. Til we meet again. Love always your twin, Donna

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Claudette posted a condolence

Lizzie, My friend, my sister. I will miss you so much. I love. Detta

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Mary Ellen posted a condolence

My dear friend, we met through the union but we were as close as lifelong friends could be. Whether traveling together or going to meetings, fighting for common causes or just calling or emailing, we kept in touch. You will be fondly remembered but sorely missed. With all my heart, I extend my deepest sympathies to your family on their great loss. Always and forever, Mary Ellen

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Nicole Kimberly Dee posted a condolence

My dear aunt Bette, I didnt get to say fairwell in the way i should have but I know you feel my sorrow.Watch over your sunday school kids as they will need it.Rest yourself as you lay until we meet again someday.I love you Jen & joe.

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Erin posted a condolence

Bette, I will never forget the way you treated and respected me for who I was. You were truly a leader and someone that would stand up for the right thing. I will cherish every moment that you and I had shared...God only knows you were special to so many people. Thank You for being You. Erin

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BRIGID HAND posted a condolence

You will be missed each and every day. I will cherish all of the memories of the good times I have had over the years. I love you my "BOP". You are one of a kind. I will love you always. B

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Alexis Williams posted a condolence

Aunt Bette will be greatly missed. I always remember going to the family reunions and always seeing her, smiling as always. Jamel, Javonte, Jasha, Joseph and Tia my prayers are with all of you.

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Laura (Lee) James posted a condolence

Bette was a beautiful person, with a kind and generous heart. She loved her children and grandchildren and was very proud of them. She loved her best friend Tia and her mother, sisters, brother, neices and nephews with all her heart. I will miss her dearly, she was the family organizer and we must continue on, because FAMILY meant a lot to her. Sleep well Elizabeth. Love your sister Laura (Lee) as only you called me.

Elizabeth A. James

1952 - 2007

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